So yea

It's tough to lose a good friend, I've been there.

But she really does sound confused. I've had friendships like that too - sometimes, eventually, it's better to just break it off entirely (even though it kills you to do it) because it's less hurtful than the on-again, off-again relationship.
 
friends I try to keep in my life if they meant a lot to me

Thanks guys, its going to take me some time but I guess I have no choice in the matter
 
AcidRaZor said:
friends I try to keep in my life if they meant a lot to me

Thanks guys, its going to take me some time but I guess I have no choice in the matter
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You shouldnt have to try if they're true friends - imo they should just stick.

Anyhow - time heals all wounds and all that crud. :)
 
No women as i believe is worth all the emotion....except your mother.Move on cause there is a big world out there,nothing stands in your way,if you hit a crossroad.......think...recollect and choose the path less traveled..
 
Forget about the friendship thing. Seriously. I tried the same with my ex and 3 years later everything exploded. It's not worth it man. Don't be friends with your exes. Pick up your chin, write her off (by wishing her the best for the future) and move on. At the end of the day you don't really have a choice. If she doesn't want you, there's not much you can do to change that so let it be.
 
I hear what you guys are saying and sometimes i feel good about things moving on and letting it be, but right after that comes a terrible stabbing pain you know?

Will probably get better eventually. Let's all hope I get over everything before the end of time :P
 
quik said:
We sound very much alike... it's been 18 months since I split up with my girlfriend of 4+ years, and to be honest, I'm still not over her. I'd very much like to be, because it feels like I'm stuck between a rock and hard place at the moment.

I know it's over, she's moved on and even has a child with some other guy (which I had to find out about from her mother btw :() but it's hard not knowing if someone who you were very close to and care for very much is ok. I know she's not happy, and I can't help but feel sad about the whole situation.

I decided a year ago to let her get on with her life after an awkward meeting, and didn't speak to her again for 11 months. Decided to phone her this week just to hear how she was doing. I could hear in her voice she was shocked to hear from me and she didn't even sound like the person I knew.

It's her birthday soon and I don't know if I should call again, I though we could be friends again given enough time but at this stage I don't know...
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Don't. Leave her to live her life and do the same. There are more than enough other people in the world who deserve your attention and will be a good fit. Leave the past where it belongs. You experienced a relationship with someone and learned from it. That does not mean it should govern the rest of your life.
 
Its hard to make friends for me. Its even harder making best friends as there are little to no people out there that gets me enough to know what i will say or react (which is quite random and to them, suprisingly funny)

Its tough hey, very tough....
 
AcidRaZor said:
Its hard to make friends for me. Its even harder making best friends as there are little to no people out there that gets me enough to know what i will say or react (which is quite random and to them, suprisingly funny)

Its tough hey, very tough....
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You sound like a 10 year old every time say something. :D
Move the f**king on man!
 
AcidRaZor said:
Its hard to make friends for me. Its even harder making best friends as there are little to no people out there that gets me enough to know what i will say or react (which is quite random and to them, suprisingly funny)

Its tough hey, very tough....
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Sounds like you're the male equivalent of me :D

As I say, I've been through something similar, and I know that stabbing feeling. But it does get easier with time.
 
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