I read a lot about guys that went off grid in the USA for various reasons and universally they say start by replacing energy consuming devices with their more efficient counterparts.
So get a solar geyser, led light bulbs, more efficient PC or go laptop only, replace fridge with A+++ rated one, get appropriately sized LED LCD TV, replace slower head with low flow variant, weather proof / insulate the house.
See what your consumption is then and then build the off grid system. I have done most of these except the geyser and the fridge and my household of 2 people now uses around 320 kilowatts a month. I got a plug energy monitor to measure the fridge and other appliances and I can easily save another 60 to 80 kw by upgrading my htpc to a newer one and replacing my fridge.
Both will be replaced soon as they are both old and near end of life.
I am a big believer in using less power without negatively affecting my lifestyle and all these improvements have allowed me to continue living without running around turning things off or going without anything.