The_Ogre
Honorary Master
A life-long buddy of mine broke up with his girlfriend of a number of years recently. I'm friends with both of them.
I came to know of this last week via facebook when she made it public that they've split up. I commented and told her I always thought they're meant for each other. She asked me whether we can continue the conversation via FB Chat and eventually Whatsapp.
The conversations were mostly about the past "them" and her asking me to speak to him and find out what his reasons were for dumping her - out of interest he's now seeing her cousin.
He also told me that he might try to work things out with her...
This morning the convesation (with her) took a surprising turn.
I'm sitting bored in the office and the conversation heads into a sexual avenue *cough* and I jokingly ask her to send me some n00dz...and she obliges. Not only one pic, but four. All of them various close-up spreads.
What's boggling my mind is that she knows I'm married! By the way my wife knows that we are only friends, but I cannot predict her reaction when I get home and show her later today.
So now I'm not sure whether I should
a) tell him about this so he can make a more informed decision
b) forget what happened and hope they don't end up back together.
I'm inclined to just leave this as is and not chat with her any further.
I came to know of this last week via facebook when she made it public that they've split up. I commented and told her I always thought they're meant for each other. She asked me whether we can continue the conversation via FB Chat and eventually Whatsapp.
The conversations were mostly about the past "them" and her asking me to speak to him and find out what his reasons were for dumping her - out of interest he's now seeing her cousin.
He also told me that he might try to work things out with her...
This morning the convesation (with her) took a surprising turn.
I'm sitting bored in the office and the conversation heads into a sexual avenue *cough* and I jokingly ask her to send me some n00dz...and she obliges. Not only one pic, but four. All of them various close-up spreads.
What's boggling my mind is that she knows I'm married! By the way my wife knows that we are only friends, but I cannot predict her reaction when I get home and show her later today.
So now I'm not sure whether I should
a) tell him about this so he can make a more informed decision
b) forget what happened and hope they don't end up back together.
I'm inclined to just leave this as is and not chat with her any further.
I was joking and didn't actually expect her to deliver.
