How To Evict An Adult Child From Your Home
Many parents these days are faced with having an adult child living with them who has lost their job, gotten into legal or financial trouble, or has become difficult to impossible to live with in your home. Keep in mind, even though they are adults, adult children still should abide by the rules in your house. That could include anything as simple as keeping their room clean or helping with chores to more difficult topics like bringing illegal drugs into your home or bringing people of the opposite sex home for sleepovers, Sleepovers may have been cute when they were 10, but now that they are adults...AWKWARD!
Eviction May Be The Answer
We are not talking about a simple "Failure To Launch" scenario when we are talking about something as extreme as eviction. If your relationship with your adult child has broken down so much that straight honest talk about your expectations have gotten you both nowhere or your adult child is doing things to endanger you or the rest of your family members, it's time to take action.
Did you know in most states your adult child is considered to have "squatters rights" in your home even though they are paying no rent? In an ideal world (fantasy...sigh!), you could simply ask them to leave or change the locks and put their clothing by the curb while they are away. However, the law protects renters. even those who don't pay their rent! There are even laws AGAINST you being able to put their things on the curb. You will have to go through the eviction process.and evict your own child. It may seem harsh, but situations can get so extreme that you are left with little or no choice.
Starting The Eviction Process
A smart thing to do which fits in the covering your bases category (notice how nicely I put that!) is to give your expectations for living in your home to your adult child in writing. Outline exactly what behaviors you will not tolerate and have them sign. Get it notarized if possible. Tell them the consequences, i.e., eviction, of violating the rules. This sets up a tenant/landlord relationship and gives then guidelines for behavior in black and white. Then if they violate the "terms of the lease", it will come as no surprise when you begin the eviction process.
Get The Law On Your Side
Research the laws in your state concerning the eviction process. Every state has different guidelines. Call your local magistrate's office since eviction is a civil matter. What they will ask you to do in most cases is sign an affidavit and fill out paperwork to start the process at your local courthouse. Some counties actually have the form on line which will speed the process considerably. There is generally a filing fee of anywhere from $30 to $90. Trust me, if your adult child is causing legal or financial problems for you, this is money well spent!
After you file the eviction paperwork, your adult child will be served with an eviction notice. This is where things may get very uncomfortable at your home for awhile. The entire process can take anywhere from 10 days to months depending on your state and even the county you live in. Hopefully, your adult child will become so incensed when they realize they are being evicted, they will leave of their own accord. However, I have known of some hard cases who refuse to budge. Stick to your guns, Parents! The sanity you save may be your own!
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Serve Them Notice
After your adult child has been served their eviction notice, they generally have an opportunity for a hearing to plead their case. Yes, shocking, isn't it? But truly, the laws are set up to protect renters and sometimes it's bordering on ridiculous when you are thinking of this being your own non-rent paying adult child, If your adult child has no valid defense, the eviction process will continue. In some cases, renters will be given the opportunity to remedy the situation, but if your adult child has been giving you grief for several years, 30 days is hardly enough to turn their life around!
Tough Love Sometimes Is The Only Course of Action
Paperwork still has to be filed with the sheriff's office and the sherriff's office has to issue in many cases a motion to evict. The law may even give the renter anywhere from 30 - 90 days to vacate the property. Once the time has passed, you may move your adult child's things very nicely packaged to the curb for trash pick-up if they still refuse to move. Don't forget to change your locks!
Eviction is an extreme measure to use against your adult child, but their are cases where it is certainly warranted and the only remedy to an impossible situation. Talk first, try to come to an understanding, but if nothing comes from your talking until you're blue in the face, start the process. It's your home and you have the right to say who lives there and what goes on there! Link:
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