Thats life

Spam said:
Ummm...going to sound like a bastard now...
You want money? Go and find a job and work for money!
I am not sure what you are expecting from strangers on an online forum - sympathy, a word of advice, a shoulder to cry on?

The only person that can help you is yourself.
Instead of spending time posting about your schitty life you could have used the time and find a job online.
The quickest way to make cash is a waitering job or working as a barman - that is the only advice I am going to give you because I don't have any false expectations that you will actually try and help yourself.
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Not a bastard...i respect the views of anyone
not sympathy and not a shoulder to cry on.

I think my OP was misunderstood, at the end of the post i asked the question what would you do!!!!
I have no expectations from anyone here, its a life situation, i can deal with it, all i asked was the question.
 
Before judging somebody, first remind yourself that you never know what the other person's circumstances are like.

@OP - hope you will be able to find a good job soon. ;)
 
Kian said:
Not a bastard...i respect the views of anyone
not sympathy and not a shoulder to cry on.

I think my OP was misunderstood, at the end of the post i asked the question what would you do!!!!
I have no expectations from anyone here, its a life situation, i can deal with it, all i asked was the question.
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Well...I would do the following:
Change my attitude - you are responsible for you and yours! No one else!
I would put my "something big" on hold until further notice. :rolleyes:
Get a job that will give me instant cash - waitering or barman - every bit helps.
Apply for other jobs that I am qualified in.
Talk to the important (family and close friends) people - tell them what is happening in your life.

You have a fukking child mate - grow the fukk up!:mad:

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At the OP - Kian - do you have any debilitating diseases or any deformities that precludes you from finding work???
 
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The_Librarian said:
Before judging somebody, first remind yourself that you never know what the other person's circumstances are like.

@OP - hope you will be able to find a good job soon. ;)
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Libs - he posts he is opening himself to be judged.
 
Spam said:
Well...I would do the following:
Change my attitude - you are responsible for you and yours! No one else!
I would put my "something big" on hold until further notice. :rolleyes:
Get a job that will give me instant cash - waitering or barman - every bit helps.
Apply for other jobs that I am qualified in.
Talk to the important (family and close friends) people - tell them what is happening in your life.

You have a fukking child mate - grow the fukk up!:mad:

EDIT:
At the OP - Kian - do you have any debilitating diseases or any deformities that precludes you from finding work???
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Oh please. Listen to Mr Tough-Love :rolleyes:
 
Spam said:
Well...I would do the following:
Change my attitude - you are responsible for you and yours! No one else!
I would put my "something big" on hold until further notice. :rolleyes:
Get a job that will give me instant cash - waitering or barman - every bit helps.
Apply for other jobs that I am qualified in.
Talk to the important (family and close friends) people - tell them what is happening in your life.
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Sounds like the best advice.

Not really 100% sure on your situation dude...as some things you say are very vague, but I recon the above is the best advice yet. Good luck!
 
I would:
- Tell my wife that we will be moving out at the end of Feb, and to relax until that date.
- Arrange to go see my kid this weekend.
- Spend a lot more time looking for a job than building the new company, or dedicate my time on getting bridging finance for the upstart company.
- Place an ad in gumtree, saying you're looking for a 1 bedroom place with what you will accept.
- Stop saying : Can't blame her -- BETTER or WORSE
 
Spam said:
WTF?
The best you can ad to this thread is a snipe at me?
Go and molest yourself somewhere else.
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Grow up. You go on as if he has no pressure from a wife who wants to leave because he's unemployed (which means he's not rich).
 
CrazyFig said:
Sounds like the best advice.

Not really 100% sure on your situation dude...as some things you say are very vague, but I recon the above is the best advice yet. Good luck!
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Thanks, but like i said all i asked was the question what would you do.
I know what is expected of me and what i have to do, nevermind it all came at once, but i just thought that it would be interesting to see what another person would do in a similiar situation albeit a very peculiar situation if i could say that, but not life ending stuff, hence my topic -Thats life.
 
Oh and being listed obviously on ITC makes it a little bit harder getting into the financial services sector under which my most qualified profession is listed.
 
Slootvreter said:
Grow up. You go on as if he has no pressure from a wife who wants to leave because he's unemployed (which means he's not rich).
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The pressure from his wife is self inflicted.
No job = no money.
No money = no wife.
See how I broke it up into itty bitty little pieces for you...easy huh?
 
Kian said:
Oh and being listed obviously on ITC makes it a little bit harder getting into the financial services sector under which my most qualified profession is listed.
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So...is there anything physically/mentally wrong with you that you are not able to get a job?
 
I would expect the wife to also try and find a job especially if you have been trying for a while now with no success. You did not make a kid by yourself. I would really suggest you go get a job as a waiter or packer or something with at least minimum wage so you can start being independent, and then maybe look at "something BIG".

Maybe your CV needs to be updated or changed? What about references?
Place an ad in the paper showing your skills if any
there's always begging at street corners/intersections as a last resort
 
Spam said:
The pressure from his wife is self inflicted.
No job = no money.
No money = no wife.
See how I broke it up into itty bitty little pieces for you...easy huh?
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Oh my god. Again, grow up.

/facepalm. So he must get a job? Why didn't all unemployed folks think of that? Must be the easiest thing to do :rolleyes:
I'm sure his wife will be real proud when he tell her he got a job, as a waiter or barman. Where are the days of a woman standing by her man? No, these days they just piss off when they hit tough financial times. At the OP: When she leaves, just make sure you take back the car you got her.

And you never answered, what does SHE do for a living?
 
Sounds like you're pretty ****ed... I have a job and couldn't move out, buy new appliances etc etc.

Along with everyone else's advice, get a job. Any job is better than nothing.
Generally when starting a new company you need to basically subsidise it for a while. Most small businesses only show profit after 2-5 years so really leave it or do it on the side but get a job so you can provide.
 
Slootvreter said:
Oh my god. Again, grow up.

/facepalm. So he must get a job? Why didn't all unemployed folks think of that? Must be the easiest thing to do :rolleyes:
I'm sure his wife will be real proud when he tell her he got a job, as a waiter or barman. Where are the days of a woman standing by her man? No, these days they just piss off when they hit tough financial times. At the OP: When she leaves, just make sure you take back the car you got her.

And you never answered, what does SHE do for a living?
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If i could ask, how could i take away something i got her, even if she wants to leave, wouldn't that be wrong?

She works at a university
 
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