Trying anal for first time

Arthur said:
No less a judgment than those who implicitly approve of his experiment.

I respect his liberty.

But that doesn't mean I think anything goes.

Most advise him to do it, and how.

I advise him to avoid it and to desist.

Both make judgments.

Besides, what gives you the idea one can't judge actions? We do it all day in and out of the courts. Your condemnation and mockery of my views is a judgement. I have never said you can't make them.

(The theological prohibition against judgement is very clear and very specific. It refers to an assessment of a person's state of grace or otherwise. Only God knows that. And I have never presumed to make that judgement about anyone other than myself. I am not making that judgment of the OP or anyone else. Hope that's not too subtle for you.)
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The advice I imparted upon the requestor was more to protect his partner than himself. As they are both (hopefully) consenting adults I did not impart with my personal feelings on the act of anal intercourse itself, as this is not a PD thread.
 
MickeyD said:
The advice I imparted upon the requestor was more to protect his partner than himself. As they are both (hopefully) consenting adults I did not impart with my personal feelings on the act of anal intercourse itself, as this is not a PD thread.
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Absolutely. I get that. You are wise and considerate.
 
Garson007 said:
Arthur is just trolling.
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don't agree with that statement. he's stating his point of view, he's not trying to get a reaction out of the other posters. if what he says bother's you, that's on you cause you own your own emotions and thoughts.

no personally, i'm all for anal but just never seem to get it :(
 
Pox said:
Did you just say up there that oral sex is abuse?

Wow again.
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I never used the phrase "oral sex". It's your term which you impute to me. You have a package of ideas covered by that phrase, and then you impute then all back to me, even though my text makes no such reference and has no such implication. You need to pay a bit more attention to your reading. Goes back to our earlier point about infer and imply.

Still, for what it's worth, let's unpack a little further:

I said that sticking your dick into a mouth until you ejaculate is not sex, but an abuse.

That does not mean or imply or suggest that the mouth cannot be used on a penis to heighten pleasure or increase stimulation. It can.

It means simply that oral stimulation to the point of ejaculation in the mouth is an abuse. No more, and no less.

It is entirely acceptable (and fun) - provided the spouses freely consent - to orally stimulate as part of the mutual self-giving and mutual-pleasuring process of sexual congress.

Here's the rub (excuse pun): The entire run-up and foreplay should normally and naturally end in vaginal sex, with ejaculation in the vagina. That's what the whole thing is about and that's why we have sexual organs and gametes and libido. Or so at least the scientists say. I believe them.
 
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crackersa said:
no personally, i'm all for anal but just never seem to get it :(
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Thats why a bride smiles are on her wedding day, she KNOWS .... no more oral, no anal, .... no abuse if you will.

The contract is signed .... its all downhill for you. :)
 
MickeyD said:
male anal g-spot??? More like the prostate...
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That is the male g-spot.

Where is the Male G-Spot?

Although we can’t exactly draw you a map, we can tell you that the male g-spot is actually the prostate. It’s a gland about the size of a walnut, and it’s located right under a guy’s bladder. Obviously it’d take more than a bit of personal lube to go poking around inside a man’s organs, but don’t worry — you don’t need any special equipment to stimulate your guy’s g-spot. Much like the female g-spot, the male g-spot is about two inches in, and toward the belly. You can also stimulate the male g-spot indirectly from outside the body, by stroking the perineum.
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Arthur said:
Here's the rub (excuse pun): The entire run-up and foreplay should normally and naturally end in vaginal sex, with ejaculation in the vagina. That's what the whole thing is about and that's why we have sexual organs and gametes and libido. Or so at least the scientists say. I believe them.
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Oh gosh darn I guess I've been doing it all wrong. :(
/Strikes sex regular and changes to seldom.
Oh well at least I have fun trying the non-sex stuff.... :twisted:
 
TEXTILE GUY said:
Thats why a bride smiles are on her wedding day, she KNOWS .... no more oral, no anal, .... no abuse if you will.

The contract is signed .... its all downhill for you. :)
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Prenup :twisted:
 
Arthur, you better stop kissing your wife then, as using your lips and mouth for anything other than eating, drinking or breathing is an abuse.

Abuse has a strong negative context attached to it. Misuse does not.
Your use of abuse therefore implied /inferred that everything you listed was a negative or "bad" thing to do.

If you had just said mis-use instead of abuse I would not have reacted like I did.
 
Oh my, so if it's not for the intended purpose it's abuse. :rolleyes: Has Arthur ever met a victim of real abuse?
 
Swa said:
Oh my, so if it's not for the intended purpose it's abuse. :rolleyes: Has Arthur ever met a victim of real abuse?
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Yes he has. And not just met, but worked with and cared for and supported. And prosecuted inflictors of abuse, especially those who harm women and children.
 
Arthur said:
Yes he has. And not just met, but worked with and cared for and supported. And prosecuted inflictors of abuse, especially those who harm women and children.
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Then you should know that labeling something consensual which is pleasurable to both parties as abuse is hardly the same and in fact a slap in the face to victims of real abuse.
 
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