What happened to Teraside's thread?

[Singal]

Careful, lassie, this one she really has the crazy!

She's actually my hero......I learned everything I know from her

 

[RazedInBlack]

Yet many moons ago the mods refused to delete some of my threads

As with the DJ issue, the mods REALLY REALLY practice selective implementation of the rules !!

As I recall you didn't have a good enough reason to have your threads deleted.

On the other hand, your threads have been, lets say, entertaining.

 

[Singal]

Isn't tera the bipolar or some-such psychological disorder guy who has admitted to abusing his gf in the past? Is it the same gf or did he find a new one?

I didn't read teraside's thread, and yea we all say there is no excuse for hitting a woman, but what many people don't get is that bipolar disorder if it's untreated, comes with an uncontrollable rage.

 

[STS]

come on guys, we've all had lows and at least one embarrassing thread(me, a few), but if your character is decent then i expect at least the good guys will take up arms and defend you, and what m could you want?

 

[STS]

I didn't read teraside's thread, and yea we all say there is no excuse for hitting a woman, but what many people don't get is that bipolar disorder if it's untreated, comes with an uncontrollable rage.

i disagree, there are a lot of good reasons to hit a woman. you can't have gender equality with "omg, he hit me, he is such a sleeze"

if a woman ever hurt my son, i'd hit them so hard their teeth fell out, i don't care who it is

 

[I.am.Sam]

come on guys, we've all had lows and at least one embarrassing thread(me, a few), but if your character is decent then i expect at least the good guys will take up arms and defend you, and what m could you want?

you sir are very good

i never recalled you saying blame it on her and made it seem like you did nothing wrong

 

[R13...]

I didn't read teraside's thread, and yea we all say there is no excuse for hitting a woman, but what many people don't get is that bipolar disorder if it's untreated, comes with an uncontrollable rage.

Yes, he quit his meds for a bit and went on a rage. But he was contrite afterwards and shared with the forum and got flamed for his troubles.

 

[STS]

and also on that note, let me share some drama :twisted:

yesterday my ex had a bad day at work(she is living with my son and me for awhile) with some colleagues yesterday, and she was feeling really down. my son(3) is growing up and is still learning what is acceptable and what isn't, and him and i play rough sometimes, so he walked up to his mommy randomly while i was out of the room and hit her.

she doesn't like spanking him, so she told him it's not nice to hit people which i agreed with. she then wanted to tell him about how the people were "ugly" to her at work and how he is hurting her feelings, and i said a kid doesn't need to know about our lives and how bad the world is, and she lost her temper and started yelling at me that i always think i'm right, this made me angry for 2 reasons.

1.) We agreed we never fight in front of him
2.) I don't think a kid needs to know who was ugly to his parents, how little money we have, what drama is happening, why daddy and mommy aren't always going places together. i just want him to be a kid and be loved.

so after i told her that we'd talk about it later and gave him a bath, she was playing music loud in her room and i went to go speak to her, when i opened the door she said "let me guess, the music is too loud". right then i felt like slapping her across the head, but i told her the reasons i don't like it and that we've spoken about this before, and neither of us enjoyed watching our parents fight in front of us.

do you think kids need to know about bad days at work or money problems?

 

[Singal]

i disagree, there are a lot of good reasons to hit a woman. you can't have gender equality with "omg, he hit me, he is such a sleeze"

if a woman ever hurt my son, i'd hit them so hard their teeth fell out, i don't care who it is

Being a man, you'd have to stand in line, since your wife or his mother would have already knocked her teeth out by then.
There is no excuse for anyone to hurt your child, although it's very unlikely you'd find a woman hurting a child, unless there was something very wrong with her. Then you're going to have to decide if you're going to knock out the teeth of a mentally unstable woman.

 

[STS]

you sir are very good

i never recalled you saying blame it on her and made it seem like you did nothing wrong

i do a lot wrong i'm just very defensive over my son, i mean i'm a messed up person and i want him to grow up with none of the problems i did

 

[RazedInBlack]

and also on that note, let me share some drama :twisted:

yesterday my ex had a bad day at work(she is living with my son and me for awhile) with some colleagues yesterday, and she was feeling really down. my son(3) is growing up and is still learning what is acceptable and what isn't, and him and i play rough sometimes, so he walked up to his mommy randomly while i was out of the room and hit her.

she doesn't like spanking him, so she told him it's not nice to hit people which i agreed with. she then wanted to tell him about how the people were "ugly" to her at work and how he is hurting her feelings, and i said a kid doesn't need to know about our lives and how bad the world is, and she lost her temper and started yelling at me that i always think i'm right, this made me angry for 2 reasons.

1.) We agreed we never fight in front of him
2.) I don't think a kid needs to know who was ugly to his parents, how little money we have, what drama is happening, why daddy and mommy aren't always going places together. i just want him to be a kid and be loved.

so after i told her that we'd talk about it later and gave him a bath, she was playing music loud in her room and i went to go speak to her, when i opened the door she said "let me guess, the music is too loud". right then i felt like slapping her across the head, but i told her the reasons i don't like it and that we've spoken about this before, and neither of us enjoyed watching our parents fight in front of us.

do you think kids need to know about bad days at work or money problems?

Start your own thread FFS!

 

[STS]

Being a man, you'd have to stand in line, since your wife or his mother would have already knocked her teeth out by then.
There is no excuse for anyone to hurt your child, although it's very unlikely you'd find a woman hurting a child, unless there was something very wrong with her. Then you're going to have to decide if you're going to knock out the teeth of a mentally unstable woman.

you'd be surprised, i've known female teachers that hit kids across the head. if i wasn't a student at the time i would have probably put them in ICU. you don't abuse or bully someone, but i don't see why women should be above ****klaps if they're capable of doing bad things

 

[STS]

Start your own thread FFS!

and have it show up under threads started? no thanks people will think i am even more of a loon

 

[RazedInBlack]

you'd be surprised, i've known female teachers that hit kids across the head. if i wasn't a student at the time i would have probably put them in ICU. you don't abuse or bully someone, but i don't see why women should be above ****klaps if they're capable of doing bad things

I couldn't agree more within that context.

 

[RazedInBlack]

and have it show up under threads started? no thanks people will think i am even more of a loon

They already think that!

 

[Singal]

Yes, he quit his meds for a bit and went on a rage. But he was contrite afterwards and shared with the forum and got flamed for his troubles.

That's sad. I've read a few of his posts and he seems like a very calm, considerate person. People should really find out more about the illness before they blame the man.

 

[I.am.Sam]

i do a lot wrong i'm just very defensive over my son, i mean i'm a messed up person and i want him to grow up with none of the problems i did

you tie people up ...you like that

how is that wrong

still got lurv for you and yes your wife shouldn't show your son why the parents are not together

 

[I.am.Sam]

That's sad. I've read a few of his posts and he seems like a very calm, considerate person. People should really find out more about the illness before they blame the man.

so ..what if his wife cheated and stuff because of that

 

[Maverick Jester]

THis thread should be renamed to STS' thread...

 

[w1z4rd]

The normal thing with a teraside thread. Makes a post. Doesnt like all the responses. Closes it. Seen the same thing happen so many times.