So for anyone having this issue, after much pain, I decided to go with the scientific approach and got an LG with a linear compressor.
My word it's quiet, the linear compressor makes complete sense as opposed to a rotating one.
It's slightly audible when it first gets turned on because the fridge is working hard but once it's reached a point where it's just maintaining, you can't hear it. The Samsung is basically a jet engine compared to this thing.
What really irritates me, is after going to 5 different furniture retailers, no one
ever recommended an LG with linear compressor. When I eventually picked this and said it was for the linear compressor, the slew guy didn't even know what that meant.
If you want a quiet fridge, LG with a linear compressor. I clocked the Samsung at 50db when maintaining temp, the LG was 40db at full power when just turned on and compressor runs at about 36db when maintaining.