Will you cheat?

[Pho3nix]

no cuddling

Most women wanna cuddle...Not sure about men though

 

[Ockie]

With the risk of STD's and the like.. Having an exclusive fsck buddy would lesson chances of any surprises because your only having sex with each other.
Just wondering at which point it becomes a relationship.. Cuddling is ok. Talking about your day and problems; not so much.

Disclaimer: Working off assumptions here

I have a buddy from USA. Now and again we will get together at his place .... have a bottle of wine on his balcony and share a pizza and chat untill late at night ... and then sometimes we will fool around on his bed .... but there are no expectations. He might be moving back to San Francisco early next year ... and I will miss him when he goes ... he is a cool guy ... but I knew from the beginning when we first met that he will be a fck bud and nothing more ... even though he turned out to be a pretty nice guy to talk to outside of the bedroom also.

 

[ant_man]

Well ... as you know I am old fashioned that way. A relationship for me means we shag only each other. Having a fck bud inside a relationship would kinda defeat the purpose of having a no strings fck bud in my view.

Yeah I know, as you know I am totally opposite, I am crap scared of relationships, and I highly doubt that I would get back into one
As I keep saying Ant isnt made to be Monogamous.

 

[googoodoll]

Most women wanna cuddle...Not sure about men though

Not with a buddy....

 

[Pho3nix]

I have a buddy from USA. Now and again we will get together at his place .... have a bottle of wine on his balcony and share a pizza and chat untill late at night ... and then sometimes we will fool around on his bed .... but there are no expectations. He might be moving back to San Francisco early next year ... and I will miss him when he goes ... he is a cool guy ... but I knew from the beginning when we first met that he will be a fck bud and nothing more ... even though he turned out to be a pretty nice guy to talk to outside of the bedroom also.

Think that's the important part..Knowing that you can't be anything more.

 

[Pho3nix]

Not with a buddy....

You didn't cuddle with your BF before you became partners?

 

[DTBA]

Not with a buddy....

This sounds like that friend zone thing

 

[googoodoll]

You didn't cuddle with your BF before you became partners?

no.....

And by buddy I mean fwb / fcck buddy... cuddling steps over the line.

 

[ant_man]

I have a buddy from USA. Now and again we will get together at his place .... have a bottle of wine on his balcony and share a pizza and chat untill late at night ... and then sometimes we will fool around on his bed .... but there are no expectations. He might be moving back to San Francisco early next year ... and I will miss him when he goes ... he is a cool guy ... but I knew from the beginning when we first met that he will be a fck bud and nothing more ... even though he turned out to be a pretty nice guy to talk to outside of the bedroom also.

Again one Buddy doesn't do it for me, well it never will

 

[Ockie]

Yeah I know, as you know I am totally opposite, I am crap scared of relationships, and I highly doubt that I would get back into one
As I keep saying Ant isnt made to be Monogamous.

lol......no relationship can contain that explosive sex drive of yours. Looking for trouble ... so ja ... it is for the best I think.....else you might go Koeberg Meltdown on everyones ass in Cape Town lol

Think that's the important part..Knowing that you can't be anything more.

Very much so.

 

[STS]

With the risk of STD's and the like.. Having an exclusive fsck buddy would lesson chances of any surprises because your only having sex with each other.
Just wondering at which point it becomes a relationship.. Cuddling is ok. Talking about your day and problems; not so much.

Disclaimer: Working off assumptions here

even without the talking it feels like too much or it could be the fat talking

 

[DTBA]

no.....

And by buddy I mean fwb / fcck buddy... cuddling steps over the line.

but cuddling is over the line :0

 

[systemofpurplelimpminion]

Also I think some peoples mirrors don't work...

WTF?

 

[Pho3nix]

even without the talking it feels like too much or it could be the fat talking

Helps you stay fit. Tell your female friends you know how to help them get slim for summer

 

[googoodoll]

WTF?

As in they think they look better than they actually do...

 

[ant_man]

lol......no relationship can contain that explosive sex drive of yours. Looking for trouble ... so ja ... it is for the best I think.....else you might go Koeberg Meltdown on everyones ass in Cape Town lol

Yip and that is the biggest reason why I wouldn't get into one, well back into one, I would always be looking and wondering so I rather stay away from the relationship thing.
Koeberg Meltdown, now we talking, mmmmmmmmmmm

 

[googoodoll]

but cuddling is over the line :0

As in emotionally. Its getting too mushy

 

[Pho3nix]

else you might go Koeberg Meltdown on everyones ass in Cape Town lol

Hope you didn't mean that literally :erm:

 

[systemofpurplelimpminion]

As in they think they look better than they actually do...

Mkay, got ya

 

[Pho3nix]

As in they think they look better than they actually do...

Isn't that confidence?

As in emotionally. Its getting too mushy

Ok...