Wives 'cause' infidelity

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Malaysian men have extramarital sex because of "wives who neglect their responsibilities" to their husbands, a Malaysian lawmaker told Parliament Thursday, outraging women's groups.

"Husbands driving home after work see things that are sexually arousing and go to their wives to ease their urges," said independent lawmaker Ibrahim Ali, according to online portal Malaysiakini.

"But when they come home to their wives, they will say, 'wait, I'm cooking,' or 'wait, I'm getting ready to visit relatives'," Ibrahim said.

"In Islam, wives are supposed to stop everything to fulfill their husband's demands."

Ali heads Perkasa, a right-wing Malay nationalist group seeking to protect ethnic Malay dominance in politics.

His strident comments came as he asked about plans by the government's religious development department to educate wives on their responsibilities.

Wives failing in their duties pushed men to go to "private places to satisfy their urges", he said.

An aide to the lawmaker confirmed the remarks but declined further comment.

His comments prompted fury among women's groups in a nation with a growing sex industry and a problem with human trafficking.

Women's Aid Organisation chief Ivy Josiah said Ibrahim's comments were unacceptable for a parliamentarian.

"I am appalled as he equates women to being a sex toy and what is worse is that he uses religion to try and justify his position," she told AFP.

"The comments not only show that Ibrahim Ali is a Malay supremacist but a male supremacist as well."

Rights group Tenaganita, who monitor issues of human trafficking and abuse, said such sentiments were one of the causes of human trafficking in the country.

"Because people like Ibrahim Ali believe it is their right to get sex anytime from their wives, or otherwise seek it from elsewhere, that's why you have a growing sex industry and we see such human trafficking cases," senior coordinator Aegile fernandez told AFP.

Last March, the government launched a national plan against human trafficking as the country moves to quash its image as a transit point for traffickers.

With one of Asia's largest populations of foreign labour, Malaysia relies on illegal and legal migrants to work as domestic servants, in plantations, factories and to service the local sex industry.

Malaysian lawmakers also clashed with women's groups last month after a government parliamentarian claimed women were "slow" at the wheel and "oblivious" on the roads.

http://news.iafrica.com/worldnews/720309.html

I wonder if the woman who did have a extramarital affair claimed that their husbands have neglected their responsibilities if it would be seen in the same light?
I would think not with a country 1000 years behind with regards to human rights.:sick:
 
I see the problem, Ibrahim Ali has not evolved past the most basic animal instincts, and has no self control, so he must try to blame others for his own failures.
 
darkevil said:
"In Islam, wives are supposed to stop everything to fulfill their husband's demands."
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Thank goodness I am not religious. What utter crap! Can the women demand the same from their husbands? No.

Urrggh!!! Stop treating women like objects !!!!
 
news24 said:
I tend to agree with him. Women need to fulfill their husbands needs. They can't always count on the man's right hand to handle all the pressure .:p
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blunomore said:
How's your cousin doing ?
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blunomore said:
Thank goodness I am not religious. What utter crap! Can the women demand the same from their husbands? No.

Urrggh!!! Stop treating women like objects !!!!
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Would the husband refuse if his wife approached him seductively? ... i think not :P ... lol

I do agree with the thread though ... but i think that it goes bothways since a husband has to look his after wife and vice versa .... its probably more appropriate to ask what should a spouse do if his/her spouse refuses him/her intercourse?

But I disagree with the last comment about women being slow and oblivious when driving ... that is something i would expect a politician in this country would say :P
 
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Before this turns into a muslim bashing thread let's clarify according to the teachings,sourced from wiki:
Husbands are asked to satisfy the sexual desires of their wives and vice versa although greater emphasis is placed on male sexuality. As it is attributed to Muhammad:

"Not one of you should fall upon your wife like an animal; but let there first be a messenger between you." "And what is that messenger?" they asked, and he replied: "Kisses and words."

"When one of you have sex with your wife, it is a rewarded act of charity." The companions were surprised and said, "But we do it purely out of our desire. How can it be counted as charity?" Muhammad replied, "If you had done it with a forbidden woman, it would have been counted as a sin, but if you do it in legitimacy, it is counted as charity."

"No solution is ever better for two people who are in love like marriage."
The Malaysian is therefore wrong.
 
I suppose that technically they are correct. You can only cheat if you are in a relationship. No wife, no extra-marital affair.
 
BOYAH said:
Before this turns into a muslim bashing thread let's clarify according to the teachings,sourced from wiki:
Husbands are asked to satisfy the sexual desires of their wives and vice versa although greater emphasis is placed on male sexuality. As it is attributed to Muhammad:

"Not one of you should fall upon your wife like an animal; but let there first be a messenger between you." "And what is that messenger?" they asked, and he replied: "Kisses and words."

"When one of you have sex with your wife, it is a rewarded act of charity." The companions were surprised and said, "But we do it purely out of our desire. How can it be counted as charity?" Muhammad replied, "If you had done it with a forbidden woman, it would have been counted as a sin, but if you do it in legitimacy, it is counted as charity."

"No solution is ever better for two people who are in love like marriage."
The Malaysian is therefore wrong.
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Charity?

So you can say that you gave at the office?
 
LOL

That is right ladies you have to stop everything to sort out your man. If your house is burning down and your man wants a blowjob you had better sort him out fast or else you're in some serious trouble.

Seriously where does the world find these idiots?
 
BOYAH said:
Before this turns into a muslim bashing thread let's clarify according to the teachings,sourced from wiki:
Husbands are asked to satisfy the sexual desires of their wives and vice versa although greater emphasis is placed on male sexuality. As it is attributed to Muhammad:

"Not one of you should fall upon your wife like an animal; but let there first be a messenger between you." "And what is that messenger?" they asked, and he replied: "Kisses and words."

"When one of you have sex with your wife, it is a rewarded act of charity." The companions were surprised and said, "But we do it purely out of our desire. How can it be counted as charity?" Muhammad replied, "If you had done it with a forbidden woman, it would have been counted as a sin, but if you do it in legitimacy, it is counted as charity."

"No solution is ever better for two people who are in love like marriage."
The Malaysian is therefore wrong.
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Charity?

Always thought that consenting sex between husband and wife is a gift of love, appreciation and bonding.

As a single friend of mine points out...him doing a fat chick is charity work.:sick:
 
BOYAH said:
Before this turns into a muslim bashing thread let's clarify according to the teachings,sourced from wiki:
Husbands are asked to satisfy the sexual desires of their wives and vice versa although greater emphasis is placed on male sexuality. As it is attributed to Muhammad:

"Not one of you should fall upon your wife like an animal; but let there first be a messenger between you." "And what is that messenger?" they asked, and he replied: "Kisses and words."

"When one of you have sex with your wife, it is a rewarded act of charity." The companions were surprised and said, "But we do it purely out of our desire. How can it be counted as charity?" Muhammad replied, "If you had done it with a forbidden woman, it would have been counted as a sin, but if you do it in legitimacy, it is counted as charity."

"No solution is ever better for two people who are in love like marriage."
The Malaysian is therefore wrong.
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You are not helping the cause of Islam :rolleyes:

How backwards can you get.
 
darkevil said:
Charity?

Always thought that consenting sex between husband and wife is a gift of love, appreciation and bonding.

As a single friend of mine points out...him doing a fat chick is charity work.:sick:
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In the context he quoted the word charity should be replaced with love. These religious writings were written in a time when mouse meant a rodent scurring around in your mud hut.

If you read it again, with the word love instead of charity it makes a bit more sense. I am not saying its right or wrong, just expressing my opinion on what I think the author was trying to convey.
 
RexxGrim said:
In the context he quoted the word charity should be replaced with love. These religious writings were written in a time when mouse meant a rodent scurring around in your mud hut.

If you read it again, with the word love instead of charity it makes a bit more sense. I am not saying its right or wrong, just expressing my opinion on what I think the author was trying to convey.
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Point taken....and agree.
 
RexxGrim said:
In the context he quoted the word charity should be replaced with love. These religious writings were written in a time when mouse meant a rodent scurring around in your mud hut.

If you read it again, with the word love instead of charity it makes a bit more sense. I am not saying its right or wrong, just expressing my opinion on what I think the author was trying to convey.
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definition for charity includes

# an act of goodwill or affection
# the feeling of goodwill; benevolence
Souce
 
RexxGrim said:
In the context he quoted the word charity should be replaced with love. These religious writings were written in a time when mouse meant a rodent scurring around in your mud hut.
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Maybe it's time they rewrite the Quaran so we can get rid of all this ambiguity. Oh wait, that can't be done, it's the word of god and cannot be changed by people. It will forever be associated with the dark ages and the followers mentality won't change much either if they base it on the book.
 
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