what ever gave you that idea?
so am really trying to see it her way
1. did she say she kissed the guy???
2. then went into the shower with him
well if this was me (and im male). Kissing a girl and then proceeding to the shower is "game on!". Thats an invitation not? maybe a lady can answer this? has any females here got a guy to a shower to only tell him "no sorry i just wanted to save water and shower with you, dont get any ideas"...
it doesnt make any sense. and she also inferred he was drunk? could this have been a media stunt by her? and then finally being a rape activist ... just makes it even more strange.