Would you accept a cheating partner?

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it might sound like a rhetorical question, but would u accept a partner
who was expressing their love for some one else?

would you feel second-best, cheated?

:confused:
 
Well. I haven't experienced a situation of that kind. But when I think, it depends how much you love this girl (I'm a guy). I love my baby girl too much, that the one time she does cheat, maybe it was probably a long distance relationship, or never saw each other regularly, or she got lured by this guy. Then comes clean/honest with me and states clearly why she did it, I'd forgive her sincerely. I'm haughty; I want my baby girl to myself, I don't wanna share.. Well if she showing signs of being uncomfartable, love ceasing for me, being dodgy, I'd leave her...
 
Depends on what you consider "cheating." If he/she is having another relationship behind your back, leave. If he/she is good friends with someone and is entirely open to you about their relationship, stay. If he/she kissed someone while drunk or whatever and he/she regrets it and has tried talking to you about it, stay. If it happens again, leave. If whatever happened (or is happening) is something which you don't believe you could ever deal with, understand, forgive, accept or ultimately live with, leave.

Honesty, trust and faith are the foundation of a healthy relationship. If you hide things from each other or don't talk, or do talk but neither is willing to listen or understand, the relationship won't work.

In the end, the decision will be yours and yours alone how you deal with the cards you've been dealt.
 
jimmyj said:
it might sound like a rhetorical question, but would u accept a partner
who was expressing their love for some one else?

would you feel second-best, cheated?

:confused:
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Hmmm, now I understand a lot!

NO! unless for a quicky, one night stand.. all safety rules paramount! get my own back!
 
Your question is a little bit vague tbh. Are you competing against Tad Hamilton? Are you two in a deep relationship and she is expressing her feelings for some other dude behind your back you just happened to find out about? Or is she open about it in front of you as though you don't mean much to her?

Being number 1 is not a list. It's a commitment thing, when you really see someone as your number 1 there isn't someone second to that. Chances are there will always be someone your partner may desire more than you but he/she won't act on it if they understand they will be losing out on a good thing by losing you. You have to know if she understands this or not otherwise make her understand it right now! Make her aware of the consequence and be darn serious about it - you are gone if she doesn't wake up.

Then the choice is simply hers to make and the picture is clearer. She chooses you well then you are her number 1 provided you handled it right and don't fall for nonsense. If not tough tekkie my man you shouldn't care. People make mistakes, no one is perfect, some of us are downright crazy, misguided and wounded...but you make it clear as soon as possible with her then it could come right. You faff around with emotions and get caught up in it then it is just a stuff up, believe me :)
 
Isn't it your "culture", just like your dear leader AIDS shower boy Zooma ?

jimmyj said:
it might sound like a rhetorical question, but would u accept a partner
who was expressing their love for some one else?

would you feel second-best, cheated?

:confused:
Click to expand...

Isn't it your "culture", just like your dear leader AIDS shower boy Zooma ?
;)
 
Lol, MyBB win:
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If she's rich and hot as hell then yeah why not :D
 
I don't mind being no. 2, if no. 1 is a hawt chick and I get to join in. :twisted:
 
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