Informal estimate is mid-november
I spoke with a Samsung technical support person today, bringing up the frustration at the whole deal. Froyo is apparently in their "testing center" and he estimates (though he was quite clear that he couldn't be specific) that it should be available mid-November. Which, whilst it still blows from the POV that Froyo has been out for longer and other countries with the same model (Europe & Australia) already have the release, at least it's only 2 weeks (or so) away.
I've considered using another ROM but haven't because:
1) I optimistically keep on expecting the update to come Any Day Now
2) I actually like the samsung additions (the notification pull-down with wifi, bluetooth, etc toggles -- that's not on my friend's HTC Desire running Froyo) -- and Samsung at least has a free exchange-capable email client (which I have to use for work); even if it's not super-powerful (can't move mails around), it's at least functional (send & receive)
3) I don't want to take the chance on a bad ROM just yet. When Samsung decides they no longer want to support updates because of a marketing strategy to make me buy a new one, I'll be all over stock Android installs (or Cyano). But for now, I choose the path of least resistence.
All of this despite the fact that I really want the touted speed and functionality improvements of Froyo. I'm trying to play the patience game here
