Yip, it wasn't much fun at the time; but it was (and is) well worth it in the end.
I don't think my experience was typical. The first installations in a newly-reticulated area are always "fun".
I also think/hope the process is getting slicker as more and more people take it up.
I got a Telkom reference number from WebAfrica that was all numeric, of the form
nnnnnn-nn. But I never had any luck following up direct with Telkom itself - mostly I got told that the number was not correct and/or doesn't exist.
If you do try it at all, try to get feedback direct from the Telkom Fibre Help Desk. See
this post for details.
Also ask your questions over in the
Mooikloof Ridge thread linked previously - the experiences there are more recent.
What area are you in ?
Edit: Lyttelton, I see.