I doubt that you would have any connection at 500m, the 802.11 protocol signal strength only supports connections up to 300m max, and that is outdoors with absolutely no interference or obstacles. A typical single brick wall reduces the distance by about 35-40 meters if I remember correctly, and the signal hitting the wall at an angle decreases the range even further.
I have a friend who lives only three houses from me, around 60 meters or so, and we get no signal at his house. What you would have to do in your case is find a point on both premises that has clear line of sight to the other, and install a directional antennae. IOW, go over everything. The company Poynting (www.poynting.co.za) sells most of the equipment you would need which is:
- One antennae, 13 DBi Yagis should be sufficient, around R300 each.
- A wall mounting bracket, R50 (TV antennae brackets work well, just need a short piece of galvanised pipe)
- Sufficient amount of cable, preferably low loss cable such as Suhner Alucop, at around R30-R40 per meter (The shorter you can make this the better, don't bend cable 90 degrees)
- One female and one male N-type connectors at between R40-R100 per connector, depending on quality, and someone to crimp and connect them to the cable, or have it done at vendor if possible (Note if you crimp them incorrectly you're going to have to re-do it and waste a connector and cabling)
- One pigtail, with proprietary connector of wireless card on one side and N-Type connector on other, ranges from R100 odd to R500+ for Lucent pigtails.
- Wireless network card with connector for connecting wireless card to cabling via pigtail.
VERY IMPORTANT: If you do not seal the connections to your antennae properly, you WILL lose signal after the first bout of rain. Insulation tape is NOT sufficient, you will need proper sealants such as beautal tape (not sure of spelling).
Note this is per installation, so time this by two for both sides and you're looking at about two and a half grand minimum to get connected excluding wireless cards, then you should get full 11/54Mb/s connectivity to your friend, depending on protocol used.
There are cheaper options like going the cantenae route and using cheaper materials which I don't have alot of experience in, shouldn't be to hard though, we're busy playing around with a few designs.
This is however the most reliable and least hassle method of connecting to your friend. You could also get a wireless router at around R1500+ and an Omni-directional antennae, allowing more people to connect to you, or set up a Linux box to do it.
This is a very brief explanation so feel free to mail me if you require assistance or more information. We've done this type of thing plenty of times.
Hope this helps.
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