AcidRazor's Intervention

Watch shawshank redemption for eg. Sorry for the cliche, but getting over this will make you stronger, almost super-human. Then something will break you again and getting over that will make you even stronger. Sooner or later you'll become invinsible.
As for love what can I say...? It feels kuk to be rejected, because it makes you feel, well... Rejected. Soon you'll question your worth, your abillities. After all you'll realize that you don't need someone to verify your value. You should be more valuable to yourself than to anyone else.
No-one can destroy YOU, except YOU.
 
SoulTax said:
Something I have learned in my extensive bout with love. Each girl that I loved was the most intense pain when we broke up. But the next girl was more perfect and I loved her more. That happened over and over and over again. Eventually I realised that if the next one will always be better, there is no point in feeling sad over losing the last one.
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+1. And the next 1. And the next 1. And the next 1.

Kinda makes one feel like a playa. But it is true. I do understand that the time between lovers can be difficult. And it is harder on others (like Acid who seems to have trouble meeting them) and it is harder when the relationship has gone the distance (years, marriage, etc).
 
Johnone said:
For what it is worth: God loves. He understands what you are going through. He knows who you are. And accepts you just as you are.

But He did not create you to feel this way, to live this way. He created you for a purpose and has plans for your life.

He cares about you and desire to give you the peace you so dearly desire. So approach Him in the name of His Son, Jesus Christ, and humbly and devotedly ask: Father, please accept me in the name of Jesus Christ; give me peace and remove me from the hell that I am in. Through Jesus Christ make me a new person and let me live life to the fullness of the potential with which you created me.

Make the prayer your own. Be humble. Be sincere. Beg if you have to. The peace of God is worth it.

You've got nothing to lose. Why not risk being faithful? Why not risk being a fool? Go on your knees and try it.
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You don't think I have tried that? Most of last night was spent praying, begging even. In the end I just decided it's ok if the plan for me is to be unhappy. As long as others are happy.
 
AcidRaZor said:
You don't think I have tried that? Most of last night was spent praying, begging even. In the end I just decided it's ok if the plan for me is to be unhappy. As long as others are happy.
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Bulsht - if a god exists, I doubt his/her/its plan would be for unhappiness to prevail. And the hell with others, at that. Without diverting into the philosophical, the one major problem I have with any advice that recommends putting the problem in (a) God's hands, is that it removes the individual from taking action to remedy their situation.

Pine. Mope. Feel like crap. Take as long as it takes. But endure and see what happens. Sometimes it can take a year or two to turn that corner, even for people like me who do go places all the time to meet, greet and meat.
 
MsDenz said:
I beg to differ, Blu. The pain of losing a loved one is permanent. As time goes by, the pain changes. There are days it's lighter and there are days it's so deep that you feel it was just yesterday they left. I've lost a brother...I know how it feels. My mum lost one of her sons...it's been fifteen years...there's not a day that goes by that she doesn't hurt. Acid needs to realise how many people he will hurt if he does this.
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According to the Buddhist philosophy, the reason why we get hurt emotionally and feel pain is because you (we!) are attached to things and to people. When life changes, as it is bound to do, we find it hard to accept the change (whether it be death, divorce, breakups or whatever) and we cling to those things/people and THAT is what causes the pain. In other words, our reluctance to accept that nothing is forever is what causes us pain.

I am writing this in simple terms, I hope you understand what I am saying.
 
abzo said:
:eek:

Should be Mrs!! See how they deliberately mislead us! She probably removes her wedding band when she goes out alone :mad:
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The title "Ms" was invented by feminists. The purpose is to give women a title that does not make reference to their marital status, in line with the male "Mr".
 
blunomore said:
The title "Ms" was invented by feminists. The purpose is to give women a title that does not make reference to their marital status, in line with the male "Mr".
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Makes sense, nothing good has ever come out of feminism :mad:
 
MsDenz said:
I'm trying to escape from you crazy Charous and that even crazier Abzo :p:D
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Only crazy charou here is Singhdude :whistle:

Comes from not getting any. Sam and I get plenty.

Mind you now that he has committed to No Fap November he won't be getting either.
 
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