after the wedding.

Balstrome said:
Firstly, all those woman who have replied with vigor to my orignal post, would you consider yourselves, to be (a) successfull in the field that you work in, and (b) fairly fit. Now, I wonder if you are willing to think back to the days of school, and remember what your school friends looked like, and what they look like today. How many of them have let themselves go, after getting married? If you could managed to be successfull and keep fairly fit, what is wrong with their lives, that allowed them to slide, while you did not ?
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I've got a better idea.

Instead of me posting the vitals of me and my school friends pre and post school, why don't you turn gay?

There, problem solved, no need for you to fear that your wife will let herself go after the wedding!
 
I'm sorry, but if you marry with looks in mind, then you are in for some dissapointment ahead.

If you want a trophy take up a sport
 
My wife and I had an agreement.

We will Marry when we're ready. I have been with her for 5 years(Living together) and had 2 children before I one day decided I will ask her to marry me. She accepted and we got Married a few weeks later. Remember the phrase - Thru thick and thin. I will love my wife even is she weighs 50 kg's or 500kg's - She is the love of my life.

One should not marry just for the fun of it. One can be together for 50 years living together and not Marry. You must only get married when you feel it is the right time to do so. No one can pressure you into it.

I love my wife dearly and she is my best friend in the world, I do tease woman some times just for the fun of it (Debbie2 should know :D) but I will never ever fool around on my wife because this is a life long commitment. I knew it the day I asked her to Marry me. If you can not see yourself with one partner till the end of days, it's not for you ;)
 
Balstrome said:
Firstly, all those woman who have replied with vigor to my orignal post, would you consider yourselves, to be (a) successfull in the field that you work in, and (b) fairly fit. Now, I wonder if you are willing to think back to the days of school, and remember what your school friends looked like, and what they look like today. How many of them have let themselves go, after getting married? If you could managed to be successfull and keep fairly fit, what is wrong with their lives, that allowed them to slide, while you did not ?
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:confused:

You get fat and drink beer all day long but want your wife to be in the gym 3 hours a day ?

No mate, it's a 2 way street ;) Life is to short be be wasted away trying to impress everyone.

I think Debbie2 got it right, be gay and marry a man. Gays seem to stay pretty well built right thru out their age...... cos they still want to impress other men, even while they are with you.

As long as a woman is clean and neat on herself, I can't see what letting herself go has anything to do with any thing :rolleyes:
 
I think both genders ought to put in some effort at looking good, staying fit and being healthy.

It shows respect for the person you share your life with, if you look good.
 
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