Am I a pedophile???

[Ockie]

Not sure why this is being asked. Both are of legal age. If the girl was technically under age ... then he would be a would be rapist I suppose ... even if consensual if statuary rape applies in this country.

Knock yourself out and knock one out Picard.

PS: If she is a student .... I WOULD TREAD VERY VERY CAREFULLY THOUGH.

 

[rorz0r]

You haven't seen her ... compared to what she looked like. I was like ... DAMN!!!!!

You are right. I have not seen her. I agree that you should post pics. TTIUWP...

 

[Nick333]

Oh, crap ... that's not the response I expected.

I'm busy whatsapping a 22 year old and I'm older than you if it makes you feel better. Just play it as friends, casually ask her out for coffee after a game or practice. You'll soon see whether she likes old farts or not. I'm kidding about the old fart thing. Some guys are still young at 40.

 

[satanboy]

...

I still see myself as a young guy.

you don't look so young in that pic

 

[rorz0r]

My cousins 28 and just married a guy about 20 years older. He's "young at heart" and all though.

 

[Stormer12]

I haven't even read the post yet, but this is bound to be interesting.

 

[MyWorld]

I see it this way, and it sobers you up right away.

You were 16 when she was born. Think about it...

 

[Picard]

I see it this way, and it sobers you up right away.

You were 16 when she was born. Think about it...

Thank you for that. I appreciate it.

 

[TJ99]

Technically, as in according to the law, no, you're not.

Actually, as in sane person land... Seek help dude. Seriously. This, along with your posting history sounds like items on one of those "why oh why didn't I see the warning signs" shows.

 

[Picard]

Technically, as in according to the law, no, you're not.

Actually, as in sane person land... Seek help dude. Seriously.

 

[DerpiesFreud]

Technically, as in according to the law, no, you're not.

Actually, as in sane person land... Seek help dude. Seriously. This, along with your posting history sounds like items on one of those "why oh why didn't I see the warning signs" shows.

I dont see the connection
being attracted to a 13year old yes
being attracted to a 19 year old no

it is a bit odd since you were her coach when she was 13,and you weren`t attracted to her at the time
its like saying your own daughter is hot..
humans are wired to be attracted to attractive things,regardless of who or what they may be...
I`m sure you can say whether your parents/childrens/siblings are less/more attractive than *insert model*

 

[blue-eye-boy]

She still calls me "sir"!!!

As long as it's not "no sir!"

 

[cpu.]

As long as it's not "no sir!"

Or worse, "oom".

 

[Picard]

Or worse, "oom".

Luckily it's not that.

And fortunately she's not of the type (like me) who would prefer to address someone by their formal title ... and she wouldn't be of the submissive type.

But if I were to insist that she call me "my bold knight" she would immediately insist that I call her "my high queen and her majesty" (I think ... and I hope ...) ... and I would happily oblige.

 

[Hosehead]

my mom was 19 when she married my dad who was 51. Makes him a cradle robber or a sugar daddy not a paedo.
Anyway such relationships are doomed when there is a generation apart. Theirs lasted a decade. of which they were seperated.

 

[Swa]

An adolescent attracted to an adolescent? Why even ask the question?

To give an answer though, pedophilia is a primary attraction to prepubescent children and perhaps including a secondary urge to screw children in addition to adults. Not having either of these characteristics disqualifies use of the term. The media has really overused it to vilify ordinary individuals.

 

[ChocolateBadger]

Shes 19, what's the issue?

 

[undesign]

It's a cloaked, diverted question about a 13 year old in his class... 19? You have to be intellectually challenged to think of that as pedophilia.

 

[Sensorei]

You'd have to be either a damn good looking 35 year old, or have loads rohypnol, or money to get with a hot 19 year old. I'm guessing option 2 and 3 are off the table since you're a school teacher. So do you have abs, lots of hair and a handsome, young looking face?

If not. Forget it.

 

[Shake&Bake]

As long as she's not a student anymore - at 19, tap that.

You've said that you're gobsmacked by her.
Are there any signs that she's into you?

I'm picturing some wicked action with a hockey stick in your future if you do get a run at her goal :twisted: