Are relationships fun?

Relationships have there ups and there downs, as long as there are more up than down, more fun than bad, It is worth it...
 
Relationships are supposed to be fun :D but fun in a "I care about you so much and choose to spend time with you because you make me feel better about myself and life" way and not a "Wow this is fun but I'll wait until something better comes along" way.

It is possible to have fun in a committed long term relationship, although this may require an effort on the part of both parties, which is why people get lazy and then wonder why their relationship is failing....

If it's not fun then you're doing something wrong I reckon...
 
I had more fun during the worst days of my previous relationship than I have on my best days in singledom.

Bah. Clearly I'm a sucker for punishment but it doesn't detract from the fact that there are people who come (and go) through our lives and open windows onto a world previously unknown.

*sigh*

Damn emotions. Away with you :/
 
almostgone said:
I had more fun during the worst days of my previous relationship than I have on my best days in singledom.
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That's a problem and you need to sort it out ASAP. The only person that can truly make you happy is yourself. Others can contribute and add to your happiness but if you're not a happy person by yourself, you can't possibly be happy with someone else. Eventually you'll settle for anyone who'll have you and try force yourself to be happy.

Sorry, I don't mean to sound preachy but I've had my fair share of "unhappy" partners.
 
Nocturnity said:
That's a problem and you need to sort it out ASAP. The only person that can truly make you happy is yourself. Others can contribute and add to your happiness but if you're not a happy person by yourself, you can't possibly be happy with someone else. Eventually you'll settle for anyone who'll have you and try force yourself to be happy.

Sorry, I don't mean to sound preachy but I've had my fair share of "unhappy" partners.
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Oh, no. I think you've misunderstood me. What I meant to express was that I was incredibly happy in my relationship and hence my opinion that relationships are fun if/while they work :)
 
Relationships will only be fun if you want it to be fun. A good relationship requires effort from both sides (as well as from your friends).
 
They're fun in the beginning and then start going down there after the majority of the time.

You know that feeling up front when you have butterflies in your stomach and everything is new? One of the partners will start looking for that again ... either with random sex or firting around - or some other way to get that 'high'
 
Dolby said:
They're fun in the beginning and then start going down there after the majority of the time.

You know that feeling up front when you have butterflies in your stomach and everything is new? One of the partners will start looking for that again ... either with random sex or firting around - or some other way to get that 'high'
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I dont believe that . That kind of stuff is only goingto appen if there is a lack of appreciation. Treat your woman today like you did when you met her 5 years ago she'll still get the butterflies. When those are gone chances are so are you. THATS why partners start looking elsewhere for input in my opinion.

I'm not saying it's right or justifiable but only that that has been the motivation i've seen in those situations to date. Logic and emotion are often mutually exclusive. I could be wrong though....
 
superB said:
Logic and emotion are often mutually exclusive. I could be wrong though....
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You're wrong - obviously your situation was different to mine.

Makes no difference how you treat them nor what you do ; people get bored and spice things up themselves. THAT ends things
 
Dolby said:
You're wrong - obviously your situation was different to mine.

Makes no difference how you treat them nor what you do ; people get bored and spice things up themselves. THAT ends things
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Really.... And again ladies and gentleman, a prime example of what it means to take responsibility
 
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