Let me give you some guidance before you beat yourself up on this...
You need to focus your attention on the area where it will hurt Telkom the most. They recently announced a R1 million sponsorship for the Telkom Gaming League. Find the relevant articles and scour them for names of Telkom executives, etc. mentioned in them.
Then address your (valid) concerns regarding latency, which impacts gaming negatively and ask them how they expect gamers on DSL connections to compete on an equal footing with guys on mobile, LTE-A or even fibre connections.
Ask them what steps can be taken to make the gamers happy. Trust me, they know all about the negative impact on gaming...
Focus...
I have found that this seems to negatively affect users who are sitting 1KM or further from the exchange. I managed to get the optimization removed, but Telkom are obviously reluctant as they will be expecting me to log a call again in a weeks time when things don't work out. You need to follow protocol and keep your cool. It is possible for you as the user. I don't think you will get the entire system removed altogether. Would be nice to have a choice though. Even if you had to accept a disclaimer before hand.

