Being oblivious

supersunbird said:
No, I want to recognise that someone else wants me to fck them.
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When she sends you a pic showing some flesh, in the shower etc, you compliment her instead of sending a dick pic. Tell her it will be nice to wash her back. When you're both naked you're not playing naked and afraid - you fck.
When she takes her panties off and show you her but - it's not to look if there's toilet paper stuck, she wants to be fcked.
 
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HunterNW said:
When she sends you a pic showing some flesh, in the shower etc, you compliment her instead of sending a dick pic. Tell her it will be nice to wash her back. When you're both naked you're not playing naked and afraid - you fck.
When she takes her panties off and show you her but - it's not to look if there's toilet paper stuck, she wants to be fcked.
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Fck me, you are oblivious but in a totally different way,
 
Had that happen when I was about 16/17, a girl joined the same clubs I was in, did similar things and I was completely oblivious, even a few years later I bumped into her at a shopping center and she was super excited to see me, I just chatted and left.
Only yeaaaars later I was like wtf!!! she also looked a bit like Seyechelle Gabriel
 
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About 20 years ago I had a friend who is straight, or thought he was anyway, went clubbing he kept wanting to hold my hand, weird for a straight club but I'm chill anywhere, then afterwards home to his place, I touched his back he didn't pull away, I put my hand under his shirt he didn't object, thought.. hmm I wonder.. he was beautiful, handsome, well built but he was unexperienced, knew nothing of sex or relationships and I thought I was in love with someone at the time, so eventually ended up going to sleep but he only had a single bed, had a lovely time playing with him, as one does, but I never really made him mine. Went off to work in the UK not long after he wrote me a long email bemoaning me for abandoning him, never even realized he looked at me that way, about 15 years later met up with again, he's married with kids and stays in the next suburb but they're getting a divorce, thought we'd pick up the friendship but he had all sorts of demands which I wasn't ok with, and I wasn't really myself at the time, so I stopped going there, just to this day I regret not making him a lover & a husband, he was ripe for the plucking and would've been the ideal partner, but I let him slip trough my fingers.

Funny thing is I had a dream about him last night..
 
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Oblivious? I was just plain dumb.

One day a girl I didn't really have interest in came to our house, followed me to my room and lay on the bed while I was sitting playing some CD's. We chatted a bit and out of the blue she asked me if I want to make out and that she likes it.

I said no and told her my parents might get home any moment. It was a lie. The real reason was I was embarrassed as **** to tell her I didn't know how to kiss!
 
The_Ogre said:
Oblivious? I was just plain dumb.

One day a girl I didn't really have interest in came to our house, followed me to my room and lay on the bed while I was sitting playing some CD's. We chatted a bit and out of the blue she asked me if I want to make out and that she likes it.

I said no and told her my parents might get home any moment. It was a lie. The real reason was I was embarrassed as **** to tell her I didn't know how to kiss!
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Ja nee, your diagnosis is 100% is correct.
 
Back in uni, left a party with a girl to help her fetch more booze for the party. We get to her room, I pick up the bottles, she gets on the bed, takes off her shoes, and starts looking at me.

I’m like, stop wasting time, they’re waiting for us at the party.

Filled with regret.
 
The only women I am ever interested in are either married, engaged or in some relationship, or gay. Oblivious...
 
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As a rule I also ignore all women I know someone has a crush on. Learned this a long time ago as it only cause complications.

Been a loner since my divorce, and all I see around me is chaos. People who once thought they could give me relationship advice are now all asking my advice on divorce.

I have had my innings since divorce, and discussed a case or two here. Now I am hesitant and not really interested anymore.
 
There were a couple that came to mind recently, both left their bfs shortly after me meeting them but I thought nothing of it on both occasions.
 
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