There is an old quote, related to debate which suggests that one keeps one's eye on the ball and not the man.
Advice was asked for, and advice was given from all quarters. If you want to now turn this into a personal attack on me, I suggest you take a step back right now. It is totally uncalled for, and if that counts as a STFU then so be it.
Where is this old quote? I'd guess it was more a saying than a quote if anything... regardless: you are talking about 'Ad-hominem' - attacking
the character of an individual instead of debating your point.
Where here has your character been attacked?
I simply stated an observation as to the fact that
you have not given the advice that was asked for, you have however given
unsolicited advice on the (rather touchy) subject of parenting (incidentally attacking the character of the individual in question
and that of their offspring in the process.)
I then went on to question your credentials in terms of your vitriolic assertions on the subject of parenting - a question you have not yet answered.
You may feel personally attacked... I can understand that because that is generally what it feels like when you know you're wrong and refuse to admit it to yourself.
BTW: I was referring to
me saying "then STFU" once you admit that you are not, in fact a parent and have (in fact) been blowing hot air ...and
me getting another infraction in the process, not you.