Boy’s 3-year racist hell

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http://www.iol.co.za/news/south-africa/gauteng/boy-s-3-year-racist-hell-1.1399124#.UHPaIxWyCSo

The nine-year-old Parkdene Primary School pupil shows his string bracelet. Picture: Motshwari Mo***eng
Johannesburg -

A Grade 3 pupil recently intentionally injured his hand with a car door to avoid going to school, where his music teacher allegedly shouts racial and derogatory slurs at him.

The boy’s parents claim he has been called a “c**lie” several times in front of his classmates by his teacher. And despite several complaints being laid against the teacher, nothing had been done.

On Monday, Gauteng Department of Education spokesman Charles Phahlane confirmed they had received a complaint from the boy’s parents a week ago. He said the department viewed the matter in a very serious light.

For the past three years, the pupil, aged nine, who may not be named, has allegedly had to endure abuse, harassment, name-calling and discrimination by his music teacher at Parkdene Primary School in Boksburg.

According to the boy’s father, the most recent incident occurred last month when the teacher called the child “deaf, dumb or stupid” after his father had complained to the principal that the teacher had verbally abused him.

The father said the teacher had pulled his son aside and said: “You little c**ie, if you keep complaining about me, I will make your life very difficult.”

The boy is now refusing to return to school for the final term.

In August, the child attempted to avoid school by smashing his hand in the car door as he was being dropped at school. “He was hoping we were going to allow him to stay at home,” his mother said.

According to the parents, the abuse apparently started in 2010 when the teacher, whose name is known to The Star, noticed the pupil was wearing a red string around his wrist as part of his Hindu religion. The teacher allegedly ordered the boy, at the time in Grade 1, to take the string off.

However, when the boy said he was not allowed to take it off as it was part of his culture, the teacher allegedly called him a “c**lie”.

The parents reported the abuse to the principal, but no steps were taken. Instead, they were told that the boy should wear a jersey to hide the string.

But the boy’s father said the wearing of the string was not against school policy and he was offended that the principal referred to it as “decoration”.

The parents said that when they continued complaining, the principal told them to take their son to another school.

But the couple have vowed to stand up for their rights. “We can’t allow our son to be intimidated by a teacher who still lives in the apartheid era,” said the father.

In desperation, last week the boy’s parents wrote to Education MEC Barbara Creecy, asking her to intervene.

Phahlane said: “The department is currently investigating the matter and we expect a full report within a week.”

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I don't know so lekka , why put a 9 year old through all that to prove a point or stand up for your rights , I agree its important but they neglected the very thing they trying to preserve and that is their child's future.

Does not make the teachers actions right but this is like a battle where both parties are having a pillow fight except in this case the pillow is the boy IE the blows probably don't hurt that bad but try telling that to the pillow.
 
I hope that teacher and principal are kicked out, what sort of message is that sending the other kids?
 
Not defending him, but I would like to hear the teacher's side of the story first.
Having known a lot of teachers, it is always good to get both sides of the story.
What the teachers have to put up with among the students these days is equally as shocking.
They will have to interview other students in other classes to establish a definite pattern of abuse.
 
How the hell was this allowed to go this far?

This. I definitely wouldn't have waited 3 YEARS to report something like this. The terrible treatment and abuse I mean. As far as I'm concerned though, the boys "culture" can go **** itself if it involves something against school dress code/rules. What if a little Rasta kid wanted to smoke a few joints at school?
 
I'm with Garyvdh on this. Some students are real thugs nowadays. Even from a very young age.
 
Yes, it can't possibly be true. The kids not white. :rolleyes:

How would it hurt to wait and find out both sides of the story?
Or do you just prefer trial by media?
What does the race of the kid matter? Abuse is abuse either way.
 
I'm with Garyvdh on this. Some students are real thugs nowadays. Even from a very young age.

you'd be surprised at what kind of thugs some teachers can be. i've often walked into a classroom where a teacher was putting a kid down in a shameful way. anyone tries that on my kid i don't care who they are, i'll punch their lights out there and then
 
you'd be surprised at what kind of thugs some teachers can be. i've often walked into a classroom where a teacher was putting a kid down in a shameful way. anyone tries that on my kid i don't care who they are, i'll punch their lights out there and then

If that is the case, then you will have reports also coming in from students in other classes that will corroborate this family's report.
It's the lonely individual report that is usually highly suspect.
The department is probably right now interviewing other students and teachers.
Let's wait and hear what they have to say.
 
As far as I'm concerned though, the boys "culture" can go **** itself if it involves something against school dress code/rules. What if a little Rasta kid wanted to smoke a few joints at school?

Its not a cultural thing , its a religious thing. I am not educated enough to say whether it is something he can do without but surely a red piece of string is not that bad ? I reckon the one thing SA is lacking is diversity and tolerance.

Will wait to hear both sides of the story first though. I realize that kids can be tough and out of hand but geez this is a 9 year old boy. Discipline might be lacking as we as today's parents are often too blame for that but I don't think it can justify such remarks if true.
 
Not defending him, but I would like to hear the teacher's side of the story first.
Having known a lot of teachers, it is always good to get both sides of the story.
What the teachers have to put up with among the students these days is equally as shocking.
They will have to interview other students in other classes to establish a definite pattern of abuse.


are you kidding me. it is a known fact that the kids are NOT the only bullies in the schools. the teachers are equally to blame for being bullies as well. if they don't like a child that child's life is miserable for the rest of his/her school years. this is exactly what i have looked out for for my own children during their school years. not just children being bullies but teachers as well. i don't tolerate bullies whatsoever and i will stand up to them myself never mind my children having to deal with them. my motto is "you want to pick on someone, here pick on someone your own size".
 
are you kidding me. it is a known fact that the kids are NOT the only bullies in the schools. the teachers are equally to blame for being bullies as well. if they don't like a child that child's life is miserable for the rest of his/her school years. this is exactly what i have looked out for for my own children during their school years. not just children being bullies but teachers as well. i don't tolerate bullies whatsoever and i will stand up to them myself never mind my children having to deal with them. my motto is "you want to pick on someone, here pick on someone your own size".

Do you know more about this case than we do?
 
I don't know so lekka , why put a 9 year old through all that to prove a point or stand up for your rights , I agree its important but they neglected the very thing they trying to preserve and that is their child's future.
You think they should let the teacher continue bullying the child? Or move the child to another school when the teacher is (apparently) in the wrong? What kind of lesson would that be for the child? That he is not worth fighting for? Not worth defending. That the bully can get away with whatever they want?
 
you'd be surprised at what kind of thugs some teachers can be. i've often walked into a classroom where a teacher was putting a kid down in a shameful way. anyone tries that on my kid i don't care who they are, i'll punch their lights out there and then

I had a teacher in Primary school who was a complete ass. The rule of walking down the stairs or along the corridors there was walk on the left. Now when going down stairs that meant that you had to do a big loop when hitting landings or corridors. Which makes sense if other people are coming up stairs, but if nobody is there, what is the harm in cutting that corner.

So once I was walking down between periods and cut the corner, not getting in anyone's way. This teacher was there policing, and he blew his top, started swearing at me and then punched me in the back down the stairs, right on the spine. I think I was 9 at the time.

This guy remained teaching for years, until one fateful day, when an old student walked into his class and beat him with a chair. My only regret is that this guy beat me to it.
 
How would it hurt to wait and find out both sides of the story?
Or do you just prefer trial by media?
What does the race of the kid matter? Abuse is abuse either way.

Yes, but on MyBB if he was white then this thread would be ten pages already
 
are you kidding me. it is a known fact that the kids are NOT the only bullies in the schools. the teachers are equally to blame for being bullies as well. if they don't like a child that child's life is miserable for the rest of his/her school years. this is exactly what i have looked out for for my own children during their school years. not just children being bullies but teachers as well. i don't tolerate bullies whatsoever and i will stand up to them myself never mind my children having to deal with them. my motto is "you want to pick on someone, here pick on someone your own size".

Celine , to be far we dont know the full story yet. While I agree that Kids are just that kids and often the victims we should never take for granted that a 9 year old can also fabricate some of the details.

I can see your very passionate about this and I agree with you 100% , I just need some more evidence so to say. Kids can be terrors , remember that 2 year boy that was killed in the US a few years ago ? I think his name was Jamie and his killers are 10 years old at the time. The torture and pain that they inflicted was horrible !!
 
You think they should let the teacher continue bullying the child? Or move the child to another school when the teacher is (apparently) in the wrong? What kind of lesson would that be for the child? That he is not worth fighting for? Not worth defending. That the bully can get away with whatever they want?

Maybe but does the price justify the ends ? If true do you know what a 9 year old goes through in that situation ? We've seen kids committed suicide for being bullied by other kids , what still if the perp is a teacher ? I mean he smashed his hand just to not go to school.

Sorry but the ends don't justify the means , I would fight this thing but at the same time I would NOT let my child be the pillow in a pillow fight. I would take him out of that school and take legal action against the school and teacher. This is my fight , not my childs.
 
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