Cheapest divorce i can get

R13... said:
Irreconcilable differences. The thrill is gone baby. No one needs to be at fault.
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I am always amazed at the wrong advice given on the topic of family law.

Irreconcilable differences is not a ground for divorce in SA Law. There are 2 x grounds :

1. Irretrievable breakdown of the marriage;

or

2. Mental illness or continuous unconsciousness of one of the spouses
 
blunomore said:
I am always amazed at the wrong advice given on the topic of family law.

Irreconcilable differences is not a ground for divorce in SA Law. There are 2 x grounds :

Irretrievable breakdown of the marriage;
or
Mental illness or continuous unconsciousness of one of the spouses
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It's not my divorce but I'm just writing based on what smalls said which was that him and his wife's paths have diverged. Not in those words, but I'm not too bothered with lawyer semantics:)
 
Steps to take if you are in JHB and can go to the Kempton family court. Get your agreement on paper and make sure both of you sign it. Go to court and get the papers and fill it in. Wait 4 weeks and go to the family advocate with a copy of the agreement you both signed. Take the papers he gives you to court. Take your future ex with you when the papers are ready and go to the sheriff of the court. Pay R89 and take the papers back to the court. Wait for your divorce date and go to court. Done.

No lawyers needed.
 
You're the porn guy, right? Does this have anything to do with that? Can someone link me to the relevant thread. I'm in a nosy mood.
 
Geriatrix said:
You're the porn guy, right? Does this have anything to do with that? Can someone link me to the relevant thread. I'm in a nosy mood.
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yep, it contributed, and if you count the affair she had, the guy she kissed at a party, her new age cult beliefs and the fact that i relocated across the country to let her be closer to her friends instead of mine and that she has sex like a fish, then it all adds up in the end
 
Crowley said:
Steps to take if you are in JHB and can go to the Kempton family court. Get your agreement on paper and make sure both of you sign it. Go to court and get the papers and fill it in. Wait 4 weeks and go to the family advocate with a copy of the agreement you both signed. Take the papers he gives you to court. Take your future ex with you when the papers are ready and go to the sheriff of the court. Pay R89 and take the papers back to the court. Wait for your divorce date and go to court. Done.

No lawyers needed.
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thanks very much, we'll be doing that :)
 
ChocolateBadger said:
Sorry to hear man. I guess she didn't take to kind to your kink? How is that working out for you by the way? :)
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the kink issue was a day after we decided to get divorced, so it wasn't a big issue then. i'm popular with the ladies again now that they know i'm single though
 
Mila said:
Townsky! Damm!
Sorry to hear dude.:(
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it's okay, it's just going to suck because she is going to need my help for a bit, but she was honest with me. so that means we have to live with each other for a bit and i'll have to help her get her drivers license
 
smalltownsky said:
yep, it contributed, and if you count the affair she had, the guy she kissed at a party, her new age cult beliefs and the fact that i relocated across the country to let her be closer to her friends instead of mine and that she has sex like a fish, then it all adds up in the end
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What do you mean sex like a fish? Like drink like a fish? With you?

Aaargh crap man it sux either way. Never nice to hear. Infidelity is a killer...
 
R13... said:
Irreconcilable differences. The thrill is gone baby. No one needs to be at fault.
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I never knew marriagde was about thrills , I can't remember the priest saying till death do you part or when "the thrills are gone" but I wasn't invited to smalls wedding so I can't be sure.:)
 
smalltownsky said:
yep, it contributed, and if you count the affair she had, the guy she kissed at a party, her new age cult beliefs and the fact that i relocated across the country to let her be closer to her friends instead of mine and that she has sex like a fish, then it all adds up in the end
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Sorry to hear about your troubles I never meant to mock , but I've heard that divorce and something else is stuff you don't want to be cheap on.

Just make sure it's done right.:)
 
buyeye said:
Sorry to hear about your troubles I never meant to mock , but I've heard that divorce and something else is stuff you don't want to be cheap on.

Just make sure it's done right.:)
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i just want her to be happy and my son to be okay, i appreciate it very much dude
 
Gielie Geelmielie said:
Does it mean now you may be picking up your porn movie project again? After the divorce?
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i doubt it. i feel like crawling into a hole and dying, but you never know. i still have all the contacts, although they may be the ****s in with me by now
 
buyeye said:
I never knew marriagde was about thrills , I can't remember the priest saying till death do you part or when "the thrills are gone" but I wasn't invited to smalls wedding so I can't be sure.:)
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it's sad, i've asked her so many times to give me a chance to fix it, i've shown her that i love her. i've even suggested rather having a separation rather than a divorce to see how we feel and to see if it would work out, but not being in love with me is enough for her. she really wants it, so i'm determined to do this as cheaply as possible.

sex like a fish is when you just lie there like a corpse and do nothing :p
 
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