Dating your friends housemate

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As the title says, has anybody got experience with that? Im worried about jumping into something not fully considering all outcomes if it doesnt work out.

My friend is also me ex housemate, so his housemate stays in the same room i stayed in, slightly wierd :p knowing id had a girl there many a night when it was my room..

any advice would be appreciated...
I know shes keen, and im keen so sure it will happen, just worried about repercussions down the line... right now i cant think further than a certain something if u know what i meen, need some perspective here :p
 
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Dolby said:
I don't see an issue ?
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well one obvious one is if we had to break up, she lives there, if its a messy breakup, would mean i cant go visit my friend... Spose youd have to prevent it getting that far and ugly...

My friends gf and her are pretty good friends, and the last thing i want is for another couple to get involved in my love life if u know what i meen.

Just wanna c if nebodies been in a similar position where it worked or didnt... was it messy afterwards? Im worried about it creating awkwardness...
 
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Why do people need to make such choices so damn complicated ?

Get it on with her, and go with it as it happens. If it works out, good for you. If it doesn't so what, you'll cross that bridge when you get there :p
 
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Been there,done that. Good times. Everybody still hangs out tho
 
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mmmm either you nail her or your friend is going to beat you to it....
 
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Surv0, just don't be a douche bag to her and things won't end badly. If she is the one that's the villain of the piece then she's probably going to feel inclined to move out because you'll still be around.

But like I said. Don't be a jerk and if things do end, it can end OKAY-ish. without you having to avoid visiting your friend
 
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well I was in the same situation about 2 months ago - but I did it. I swapped flats with my friend even and now i'm living with my GF - it's great. my wife didn't approve but when she comes to visit on weekends we have amazing parties. it works out cheaper as well, sharing the rent and all...

just do it man. it will work out...
 
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lol shot guys...

didnt mean for it to snd emo :p

Im going for it even if theres a chance id not be able to visit the friend again, depending obviously...

all in all ur all right, no point in fussing over that ****, could happen, might happen, if this etc... i end up asking for advice i give myself...

shes hot :) and just what im looking for(in a non visually aesthetically pleasing way :p)

@gdiza - u dirty man u, hope ur gf doesnt read this...

@acid.... never ever man
 
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Keeper said:
well I was in the same situation about 2 months ago - but I did it. I swapped flats with my friend even and now i'm living with my GF - it's great. my wife didn't approve but when she comes to visit on weekends we have amazing parties. it works out cheaper as well, sharing the rent and all...

just do it man. it will work out...
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Bwhahahahahaha i think i just wet myself!
 
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Yea i really don't see a problem hey.

There is no reason for break-ups to end up nasty. I've had some that did and some that didn't. So don't worry about the end result.

Gotta live in the moment man. Life's too short!
 
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