Developing feelings for a co-worker...

cashmoney said:
I asked her out(Well kind of) . . .some of the guys from my department organised a paintball outing thingy and so i went to her and invited her along(She doesnt know the other people) and she said yes:)
i know its not a date but at least will be spending some time with her out of the office.
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Just don't shoot her ...
 
Haha . . I wont. . I used the cheesy "Dont worry ill protect you" line...she laughed and smiled...lifes good:)
 
I started developing an attraction for a collegue of mine. Unfortunately for me she got married about a year ago and I'm also decent friends with her husband. I think I've managed to squash my feelings quite well.
 
Picard said:
I started developing an attraction for a collegue of mine. Unfortunately for me she got married about a year ago and I'm also decent friends with her husband. I think I've managed to squash my feelings quite well.
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I would be fascinated by a psychologist's explanation of the thought processes in the mind of someone when they fall for someone else.

Yes, yes, I know some guys may say it is not in the mind but in other body parts, but really, there must be some medical / scientific / psychological explanation for 'falling in love'.
 
blunomore said:
I would be fascinated by a psychologist's explanation of the thought processes in the mind of someone when they fall for someone else.

Yes, yes, I know some guys may say it is not in the mind but in other body parts, but really, there must be some medical / scientific / psychological explanation for 'falling in love'.
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I think with this girl it wasn't a biological infactuation. Rather it was, I think, a cognitive desiscion because she is highly intelligent, very ambitious, has a very confident and spontaneous personality ... things I find hugely attractive in a woman.

Of course she is mildly attractive without makeup on and has a decent body (slim). With makeup on she looks very good.

Her husband on the other hand is built like a brick shytehouse (rugby loose forward) but has the intelligence of one too. But he is a nice guy nonetheless.
 
Picard said:
I think with this girl it wasn't a biological infactuation. Rather it was, I think, a cognitive desiscion because she is highly intelligent, very ambitious, has a very confident and spontaneous personality ... things I find hugely attractive in a woman.

Of course she is mildly attractive without makeup on and has a decent body (slim). With makeup on she looks very good.

Her husband on the other hand is built like a brick shytehouse (rugby loose forward) but has the intelligence of one too. But he is a nice guy nonetheless.
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I speedread your post and I was gonna say: maybe he has a good heart, and then I saw your last sentence :D
 
Killove said:
dont **** where you eat.

how does she feel about you?
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Yep. Don't pork the payroll, don't screw the crew.

Seriously, if neither of you are each others boss, shouldn't be too much of a hassle as long as everything stays transparent and cool.
 
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