Developing feelings for a co-worker...

[Fern9do]

Been trying to supres the feelings for weeks now but cant lie to myself anymore.The fact that im thinking of how beautiful her eyes are while im testing a power amp pretty much tells me that i have feelings for her.
What do yall think i should do? from what iv heard office romance is a big no-no...have anyone been down this road before?i dont want to do anything that wil jeopordise my position at the company.

 

[bwana]

Is there an official company position on office romances?

 

[Killove]

dont **** where you eat.

how does she feel about you?

 

[Ou grote]

dont **** where you eat.

how does she feel about you?

Yep.

Sure u were in love with some of your school teachers as well.
Now it's safe to pursue them.

 

[xrapidx]

Actually - most couple's would of met through work or friends. I don't think I'd want to meet a girlfriend in a bar

If she's not in the same department - who care's?

 

[Killove]

Yep.

Sure u were in love with some of your school teachers as well.
Now it's safe to pursue them.

aah Mrs Soller.. you sure were a babe. one day, one day.

 

[Fern9do]

Yeah shes not in the same department,we are on the same floor but she works for research and development.
Theres no official office policy as we are very laid back in terms of rules. Im pretty sure she'l say yes if i ask her out because theres definately chemistry + we are both single.

 

[CathJ]

It's tricky. I was in the same situation once - didn't do anything, lost the opportunity, and now regret it. But it's a huge risk...

 

[Fern9do]

The thing thats bugging me is that if things dont work out itl be al akward and ****

 

[medicnick83]

Is there an official company position on office romances?

Here, we are 'apparently' not allowed to have them, but that didn't stop me and a co worker hehe

 

[medicnick83]

The thing thats bugging me is that if things dont work out itl be al akward and ****

Just don't let it end badly... if you fight or something, apologise, be the bigger man etc... so now now, ya... see what happens

 

[Killove]

i retract my previous statement, if you like her, go for it.
TRUST me, its better than meeting a girl at a club.
and if things go sour, surely you're both mature enough to deal with it. Just keep it on the down-low

 

[FaNIX]

Cashmoney: I would definitely pursue it... Take a chance, life is too short man!

Whats the worst thing that can happen? You really have nothing to lose, and everything to gain... GO FOR IT!

 

[LandyMan]

I met my (now) wife at work in 2000

 

[Dolby]

Testing a power amp? WHat do you do?

 

[LandyMan]

Actually - most couple's would of met through work or friends. I don't think I'd want to meet a girlfriend in a bar

I fully agree on that

 

[xrapidx]

Work isn't everything.... who knows, if you believe in this sorta crap, she could be the ONE!.

 

[xrapidx]

P.S. We need pics to give an accurate judgment.

 

[Fern9do]

Trust me shes very cutE.Cant exactly go up and say "Hey im duscussing wether or not to ask you out on a forum and the members want a pic"

Im 22 and i think i agree with those who say i should do it because lifes too short,take the risk etc.

To the guy that asked im testing a military surveilance systems power amplifier.

I think im gna go for it!!!

 

[air]

go for it - regrets are a **** thing to carry round with you. monday to friday, we all spend more waking hours with our co-workers than with our more significant other halves [if u are attached], bound to happen.