1.) You haven't explained anything.
2.) An example of life (1) doesn't amount to a ratio that has universal reach.
I have a box of 100 marbles: 99 green and 1 blue.
The only way I can make claims about probabilities or ratios of blue to green marbles is to know or extrapolate the total quantity (blue and green) or marbles. The knowledge or extrapolation comes first, which provides the ratio. You can't start with a ratio. We don't know the total quantity (how much life is out there), we only know what exists in our little corner of space. Without such knowledge we cannot even extrapolate the potential numbers, and without those numbers we cannot arrive at a ratio such that you seem to have arrived at.
The only ratio you can claim has any substance is:
1:Our little corner of space that we know about.
1.) I don't know if aliens exist.
2.) I think it's likely that if life arose once it's probably a feature of the universe that can occur elsewhere in infinity.
3.) I have an issue with your use of stats and ratios, not with your view that aliens don't exist.