Thanks,
I think i understand now.
Because the two particles are moving fast, their time is passing slower. Therefore, if you were sitting on the particle, the other one would approach you at a slower rate than it would look like to an outside observer.
Though.. to an outside observer they would approach each other at 1.2c, But that is not cheating relativity because nothing is moving faster than light relative to him.
Pretty much, but you need not worry about that.
I hope I explained well, it's a really difficult topic to explain because you literally can't relate it to anything us humans are used to... Quantum Physics is another fsck up in that sense... and will take a good 2000 words + to just describe some of the simple stuff :/.