Dreaming about your partner?

all of my insecurities show in my dreams, i've learned to ignore them..
but yeah, i'm always having dreams about my ex's and current.

They don't mean anything to me anymore, cause I know its just me being paranoid
 
do you guys ever feel your partner is cheating on you in real life

my fiancee always has her cellphone with her

toilet bath ahhhhhhhhhhhhh it drives me to the point of actual nightmares about it
 
killadoob said:
do you guys ever feel your partner is cheating on you in real life

my fiancee always has her cellphone with her

toilet bath ahhhhhhhhhhhhh it drives me to the point of actual nightmares about it
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you should trust your fiancee, make sure of that before you marry her!
 
If you cant trust some one then dont be with them.

It just takes alot out of you to worry about what he/she is doing behind your back, also it stresses the other person out!

Thats gonna lead to a bad ending!

Either work on the trust thing or leave it now as you might just save yourself some heartache and maybe a year or 2 of being in a relationship thats going nowhere.

But thats just my opinion :D:D
 
killadoob said:
do you guys ever feel your partner is cheating on you in real life

my fiancee always has her cellphone with her

toilet bath ahhhhhhhhhhhhh it drives me to the point of actual nightmares about it
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You know, I've had girlfriends like this.
It's because if they leave their cellphone alone and they get their sms's then their partner will check it and shyte will hit the fan.
Those who don't mind forgetting their cellphone somewhere or having a life away from it, have nothing to hide, those who do, keep their cellphones close to hand.

Just remember, many people these days have a partner, but are looking for someone better, its like jobs, we happy for a while, then we start looking again.

MXiT, MIG, these singles sites, all their contact stuff offer SMS options.

I can't remember the last time I trusted a partner completely.

But I'm over it... I can't explain it, but I'm just content now - I've been through it all that I just know how to deal with it all and I just roll with the punches as it where.
 
thats what i thought before i had a g/f right

i never knew how powerful jealousy is, it makes you think stuff that is not actually true

me and my fiancee are soul mates but this jealousy thing drives me crazy lol

it workx both ways she's always checking my phone and my facebook which i never use

ppl always say if you dont trust someone dont be with them but jealousy is such a terrible feeling to have even if the stuff you think is far fetched :)

yea gdi but my g/f has alot of girl friends she chats to and its not like she hides her phone she just keeps it with her where ever she goes :)

i dunno i suppose yea roll with the punches :) after 5 years of living together im sure i should not be feeling this way
 
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jealousy is a very bad thing, but I guess most relationships start off with a little bit of jealousy. I figure only after the first year of being together does it go away, or just a little.... I don't know, how can one ever predict where a relationship is going...
 
Maybe... But what makes mine bad is the fact that I'm the reason she's an ex. I let my insecurities get in the way of a perfectly good relationship. I dream that we get back together but when I wake up I realize it's not going to happen. Crap.
 
Whenever I dream about my ex, I always wake up really happy.
I only ever dream about 1 ex, the one woman I've ever truly loved and I'm man enough to admit I fscked that relationship up. What I'd give for '1' more chance :(
 
Nocturnity said:
Maybe... But what makes mine bad is the fact that I'm the reason she's an ex. I let my insecurities get in the way of a perfectly good relationship. I dream that we get back together but when I wake up I realize it's not going to happen. Crap.
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Never say never Nocturnity.
Nothing heals a relationship like time.
Just hope you 2 haven't completely lost contact or are enemies because after a few months or so, try go for coffee or something, if there is something there, maybe you'll both see it and try again.
 
When I go to sleep, I sleep, dont really remember any of my dreams, robably screwed up beyond belief, and contains scenes of me with jessica alba and an electric mixer :D

The wife seems to dream a lot, but its difficult to distinguish why she is angry with me sometimes
 
Hello all!

@ gdiza

Hi, I'm new here, but I've been watching this thread and I must say, I have been agreeing alot with what you say gdiza.
Can I ask, in post 32 you said you messed up, what exactly happened?
I ask because you seem to know what you talking about but you managed to bugger things up with this ex of yours
Thanks
 
lawless_kid said:
Hello all!

@ gdiza

Hi, I'm new here, but I've been watching this thread and I must say, I have been agreeing alot with what you say gdiza.
Can I ask, in post 32 you said you messed up, what exactly happened?
I ask because you seem to know what you talking about but you managed to bugger things up with this ex of yours
Thanks
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mmm, this might get interesting...

/me tunes in...
 
lawless_kid said:
what exactly happened?
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Hi bru, welcome to MyBB!

Well, they say, with age comes knowledge and experience.
Suffice to say, at this time, which was many years ago, maybe, what, 4/5 maybe?!? (give or take a year)

Me and the girl in question were 2 very different people, I loved her alot, more than she'll ever know, but us being different, we had this habit of getting on each others nerves alot, we both didn't handle situations well.
Suffice to say, I met a nice girl, she gave me all the attention that 'my gf' didn't give me, she wanted to know about me, she wanted to give advice, she just cared about me (and she was keen on me)

My gf however, only ever critizied me, I'd ask her how her day was and she'd give me attitude about how I wouldn't understand anyways, even if she told me (just because she went to UCT - like I was dumb) and when I said "I loved you" or whatever romantic, she'd just look at me and smile and all I think I ever craved was for the affection to be returned. I never got it.

I just start to feel things for this other girl and I didn't wanna cheat so I broke up with her which hurt her alot and after what, a month or so with this other girl (we got together) I realised quite quickly that I still loved my gf, really, like alot, by then, the damage was done and 'my gf' "I think" had moved on with her life or so she thought.

So ya... See, messed up.
 
I don't think you messed up, even though you think you did. It seems like your X GF wasn't that commited to you as a person. It seems that she didn't show enough interest in your life, so you did the right thing to move on, although it wasn't easy, it never is.

I sometimes feel that my partner doesn't feel the same way, most of the time I am the first to say "I love you" and then it feels that he is obligated to say it back... Not a nice feeling... So yea, I think I know what you went through, but from what i've read, and for what it's worth, I don't think you were the one who trashed the relationship.
 
FaNIX said:
I don't think you were the one who trashed the relationship.
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Oh no FaNIX, I do believe I was, but it was probably for the best, I mean, after we broke up, she went to the UK and did alot with her life so maybe it all worked out in the end because she always felt like she was getting / going no where - even though i always knew she was headed for great things, I still do believe that.

This entire thread and just made me think about her and miss her again.

I think what I should've done with her is talk about everything with her even though I know it would've been very difficult because we were so stubborn!

Hmmmmmmmmm, what is, what was, what should be... it's in the past anyways. :(
 
I sometimes dream that I am still together with an ex and we are in love and she is really distant and different with me. Wake up quite confused and a little hurt.
 
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