Friday Night Loner

[Positively Negative]

Hi Forum,

Am I the only one who generally has fck all planned for almost every single weekend?
The only time I get up to anything is if someone calls me or I hear of this or that on the wkend itself.
It's Friday night and I'm still sitting at work surfing the net and being bored.
I'd rather be bored here than go home to an empty house and feel kuk lonely.

So I scrolled through my phone and realized I have very few friends to call up really.
At my age , they are either all with fiances or gfriends, or just live too damn far.

I guess the useless point of this thread is to ask WTF everyone else does on friday night when
they have no plans? I just feel completely alien like when it comes to weekends and people are
buzzing because they have so many plans and I'm just like 'nothing man, just chilling'.
I know I need a gfriend but that's another whole separate story. I'm tired of series and movies,internet.
Should I start reading possibly? At this moment I feel like a sensitive little failure, apologies.

Yoh, I must find myself some mary-jane blaze >>> at least she passes the boredom better than anything.

 

[Noseworthy]

buy a PlayStation

 

[Picard]

I've usually got nothing planned for Friday nights because I want to.

Unfortunately my time is not always my own.

Fortunately tonight I've managed to duck under the radar.

But don't feel too happy for me. My problem is that socialising events come in flash flood forms. Sometimes I must choose between between colleagues and friends.

 

[HavocXphere]

I hear you - got a similar problem. Most of my friends are kinda 10000km away. And everyone round here...I just don't fit in.

pity that you're in jhb...if you were in pta i'd invite you to go shoot some pool or something

 

[Friedpet]

I'm studying tonight. Do you feel better now?
Maybe download Steam and start playing some games? I can recommend quite a few good one (or at least ones I'd like to try in a parallel universe...)

 

[Rocket-Boy]

Online gaming, choose a social game and chat to people on teamspeak.

 

[Anonymous™]

Hi Forum,

Am I the only one who generally has fck all planned for almost every single weekend?
The only time I get up to anything is if someone calls me or I hear of this or that on the wkend itself.
It's Friday night and I'm still sitting at work surfing the net and being bored.
I'd rather be bored here than go home to an empty house and feel kuk lonely.

So I scrolled through my phone and realized I have very few friends to call up really.
At my age , they are either all with fiances or gfriends, or just live too damn far.

I guess the useless point of this thread is to ask WTF everyone else does on friday night when
they have no plans? I just feel completely alien like when it comes to weekends and people are
buzzing because they have so many plans and I'm just like 'nothing man, just chilling'.
I know I need a gfriend but that's another whole separate story. I'm tired of series and movies,internet.
Should I start reading possibly? At this moment I feel like a sensitive little failure, apologies.

Yoh, I must find myself some mary-jane blaze >>> at least she passes the boredom better than anything.

Nah bru; there comes a time when you grow above the usual bullsh*t. Sure plans are great and all, but more often than not, people are going on drinking sprees! As for the GF, it will happen when its timing is right - actively seeking one could only lead to complications.

Read, consider pursuing a hobby for fun or as a potential business, expand your friendship circles; do **** that makes you happy. I'm 23 and quite content that I am sitting on MyBB catching up on the week's occurrences.

Are you in CT by any chance?

 

[DerpiesFreud]

hobbies +1
I`m busy 3-4 times a week with my hobbies,it can be quite draining at times,but its awesome
try sports even?

Im usually forever alone,but I`m quite happy like that
I also dont have many friends to invite for stuff

reading +1 reading is awesome,especially good books
you dont need a woman to make your life complete
wtf is mary jane blaze? fapping to tarzan? :wtf: :erm:

 

[HavocXphere]

wtf is mary jane blaze? fapping to tarzan? :wtf: :erm:

lol mary jane = weed

 

[grok]

I have nothing planned most weekends .. yet I wouldn't change it for the world to be honest.

 

[mercurial]

Enjoy the freedom. Once you've got a gf, kiss this free time goodbye.

 

[rorz0r]

I don't normally have any "evening" stuff planned but there's usually stuff to do on weekends I can't do during the week. Way over going to clubs or whatever, don't have the energy or inclination but that's mostly because I'm not "looking". Still feel rather "bored" sometimes and also like I don't socialise much.

 

[Pooky]

I never do anything on the weekend either.

 

[Sly21C]

I also almost never have plans on Friday nights and weekends, i.e. plans involving partying and clubbing and all that jazz. I'm happy here at my place by myself surfing the net and learning something new.

 

[killadoob]

Dude you are not going to find a female sitting surfing the web unless you are surfing dating sites which i would suggest since you sit bored surfing anyhow, that is the only way a female will grab your attention since you don't go out.

I don't know how confident you are but go to bars and drink. If you don't drink you may still find a friend. Go when there is a rugby match on it, bars are normally packed you can find a seat next to people and make friends but yea all depends on your confidence levels, if you drink then i don't see the issue . One thing is certain if you don't make a plan you will be bored and lonely and you will need to find a way to feel happy being alone but you need something to keep you busy, rocket mentioned gaming. Online if possible.

People say gaming isn't social but it is very social if you are in a clan and everyone is chilling on a ts server. You may find friends near you and actually go out with them. What do you enjoy doing? I sat and watched aljazeera for like two hours tonight, played fifa 2013. Chatted on the forum and people may not think this but chatting on a forum is socializing. Perhaps post a bit more, post count means fk all but get involved in the debates more. You might find a friend here, try something though.

 

[visrot]

often on a weekend I think about the Monday. Then I shyte myself into a hangover, but that rarely happens since I don't drank.
I do however contemplate the ossibility of shooting the pool now and then. This occurs only on weekends though since Mondays is not really one of my favorates

 

[yaeger]

I would suggest joining a social sports club.

 

[Picard]

Friday evenings are sacred to me.

Aliens can take over the world for all I care, but they should just leave alone my Friday evenings.

 

[Pooky]

lonely i am so lonely i have nobody

 

[JacquesZA]

Do you do a sport or activity?
If you MTB and you in joburg pm me