Gay question.

[nfbs]

Semi related question, are there more tops, or bottoms, or pretty much 50/50?

Probably like driving a car. 90% of drivers think they are better than average.

 

[satanboy]

I thought a versatile guy was someone that could bake and change a tire.

 

[ShaunSA]

Semi related question, are there more tops, or bottoms, or pretty much 50/50?

From personal experience the bigger demand is for tops - I assume because of the smaller number. And if you're a well hung top then you have to fight them off

 

[Ockie]

Semi related question, are there more tops, or bottoms, or pretty much 50/50?

Not as black and white as that as mentioned before. You get top and bottom, top/versatile and bottom/versatile and then just versatile and these are not set in stone either.

 

[crackersa]

Ja .... unlike a vagina ...... you cant just be going shoving things in there. Need to ask it nicely first.

I know some ladies that will argue that statement about a vagina!

 

[STS]

sounds a lot like BDSM with dom, sub and switch

 

[Nuro]

sounds a lot like BDSM with dom, sub and switch

I was about to ask the question, would a top naturally be more dominant and a bottom submissive, or does it not translate that easily? Not strictly in the bdsm sense, just more of a relationship dynamic.

 

[Ockie]

I was about to ask the question, would a top naturally be more dominant and a bottom submissive, or does it not translate that easily? Not strictly in the bdsm sense, just more of a relationship dynamic.

No ... you cant look at a guy and say ... well, he is a bit more fem than his partner and must be the bottom. You get big burly men that are versatile or bottom. I got it off once with a big burly hairy rugby player (he played club rugby in Wales or something) ... and he wanted to bottom that night .... but is versatile. The place where I was staying before, the gay couple that owned it, the one was butch .... and the other one was really feminine .... but the roles was reversed ... the butch guy was bottom and the fem guy was top.

 

[Nuro]

Thanks Ockie

 

[MisterFiftySomething]

I started off as bottom. Now I am Top/Versatile.

So, basically, you're sleeping your way to the top?

 

[Nerfherder]

No .... I did not know.

Just also remember that top/bottom is not set in stone. Just because you are only top now does not mean you wont be versatile in future.

Sometimes my wife is on top and sometimes i'm on top.

I imagine for you guys its the same.

 

[Ockie]

Sometimes my wife is on top and sometimes i'm on top.

I imagine for you guys its the same.

hahahaha......lets talk again once she has come at you with a 9" dildo. ONLY then can you compare notes with us!

 

[Ninja'd]

Sometimes my wife is on top and sometimes i'm on top.

I imagine for you guys its the same.

Dildo goes where?

 

[ant_man]

From personal experience the bigger demand is for tops - I assume because of the smaller number. And if you're a well hung top then you have to fight them off

Well hung top, Yip ant_man is a very busy man

 

[Zewp]

That's something strange I've noticed. Penis size seems to be a lot bigger issue for gay people than straight people and bigger definitely seems to be better in the gay community. I'm not innocent in this either, because I don't really want a guy with a small penis. I guess that probably means I'm a bit superficial, but anything under 5 inches just doesn't sound very appealing.

There's also this idea that guys with smaller or average sized penises can't be tops. What's up with that? Does it not feel as good as a bigger one?

It's curious that for straight women it's the 'motion of the ocean' that counts and for gay guys it seems to be bigger is better.

 

[Ockie]

That's something strange I've noticed. Penis size seems to be a lot bigger issue for gay people than straight people and bigger definitely seems to be better in the gay community. I'm not innocent in this either, because I don't really want a guy with a small penis. I guess that probably means I'm a bit superficial, but anything under 5 inches just doesn't sound very appealing.

There's also this idea that guys with smaller or average sized penises can't be tops. What's up with that? Does it not feel as good as a bigger one?

It's curious that for straight women it's the 'motion of the ocean' that counts and for gay guys it seems to be bigger is better.

Because unlike woman .... we actually do have a G-spot that needs to be hit right on the money! lol

A big dick can be great .... but so can a average size one .... depends on who wields it.

But yes ... you are right ... many gay men are size queens ...... a big one is nice to look at

 

[EMAM]

Well hung top, Yip ant_man is a very busy man

Was going to pitch in right here but "shut up mrs_ant_man, shut up"!!!!!

 

[ant_man]

Because unlike woman .... we actually do have a G-spot that needs to be hit right on the money! lol

A big dick can be great .... but so can a average size one .... depends on who wields it.

But yes ... you are right ... many gay men are size queens ...... a big one is nice to look at

It's more about how you use it, that is the trick of the trade.

Too big and you can rip the oke a new one.

 

[EMAM]

Because unlike woman .... we actually do have a G-spot that needs to be hit right on the money! lol

Ummm, actually we also have one but maybe cos I'm married to a gay man, he's looking in the wrong places for it

 

[Compton_effect]

Aand the topic suddenly goes into TMI land and starts prancing about with the unicorns, while clapping its hands over its ears and singing 'lalalalalalalalalalala!' at the top of its voice.