Getting over a person

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There is this person that I kinda like.... we`re acquaintances/Friends
We mesh really well and get along well.
however theoretically it wont work out due to a number of variables.

I see a few possible solutions with my limited processing capability.
a) cut off and forget about her
Pro : Will work best to stop wasting my time on something thats not possible
Con : I`l lose a friend and all the fun/company

b) some how desensitize myself
Pro : Makes me more badass and improves my social exoskeleton armor
Con : Not sure how and it might reduce the enjoyment in my general life.

Save me MyBB!! :cry:

And no matter how strange I am, I am not a creepy stalker therefore I wont give pics ofc
 
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What kind of relationship is it when one wants more than the other? You will always be hoping to that she'll change her mind but it won't. Just stop all communication, end it all. Maybe in the future things will be better, but for now stop being friends. I'm sure you have other friends who are fun anyway. I made this decision recently and I know it's for the best in the long run.
 
Helghast said:
What kind of relationship is it when one wants more than the other? You will always be hoping to that she'll change her mind but it won't. Just stop all communication, end it all. Maybe in the future things will be better, but for now stop being friends. I'm sure you have other friends who are fun anyway. I made this decision recently and I know it's for the best in the long run.
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Perhaps.... but its FrEaKING difficult....
I need to think with logic and not emotion
 
Pooky said:
Does the person you like know you like them?
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Possibly....
I`ve got this armored exoskeleton devoid of emotion that I show to the world.
But it may have leaked through..
I`ve consciously tried to avoid showing any symptoms but I`m not sure how well that worked
 
nukefission said:
Possibly....
I`ve got this armored exoskeleton devoid of emotion that I show to the world.
But it may have leaked through..
I`ve consciously tried to avoid showing any symptoms but I`m not sure how well that worked
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Yeah she probably does know but chooses to act like she doesn't. If you can, your best bet would be to tell her your feelings with complete transparency (I could never do this, so don't worry if you can't). Otherwise you could go on being friends and just live with feeling crap all the time, or distance yourself (not outright) and gradually lose contact.
 
Pooky said:
Yeah she probably does know but chooses to act like she doesn't. If you can, your best bet would be to tell her your feelings with complete transparency (I could never do this, so don't worry if you can't). Otherwise you could go on being friends and just live with feeling crap all the time, or distance yourself (not outright) and gradually lose contact.
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She :wtf: I never said its a she
I`m kinda paranoid so I`m referring to him/her as the person


If He/She knows then :erm: What do I do??
Lets say I tell the person my feelings then 2 things can happen

a) the person rejects me :
Deal with it and move on

b) person accepts me :erm:
Incoming potato storm...
Will have to tell the person that it wont work and hurt myself and that person in the process

Either way I`m fooked
 
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Start drinking heavily - it seems you need to that way the confusion will be accepted.
It seems you know it won't work so get over it and either be friend or part ways.
 
abzo said:
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Damnnit I`m losing control of my own mind..
Hemi300c said:
Start drinking heavily - it seems you need to that way the confusion will be accepted.
It seems you know it won't work so get over it and either be friend or part ways.
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Perhaps I had an alcohol thread a while back.
I don't think I`d be able to take being just friends though.
 
nukefission said:
She :wtf: I never said its a she
I`m kinda paranoid so I`m referring to him/her as the person


If He/She knows then :erm: What do I do??
Lets say I tell the person my feelings then 2 things can happen

a) the person rejects me :
Deal with it and move on

b) person accepts me :erm:
Incoming potato storm...
Will have to tell the person that it wont work and hurt myself and that person in the process

Either way I`m fooked
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Why won't it work?
 
nukefission said:
Commitments... I`l be moving around a lot in the near future.
Though the theoretical probability still exists that it might work anyway


:p I don`t work for the goverment but I heard they have an opening for the mentally deranged.
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Well then you either just be friends and live with it, or distance yourself. Your choice.

Or if you are brave enough just propose some sexytime cause that's all anyone wants from a relationship anyway
 
Pooky said:
Well then you either just be friends and live with it, or distance yourself. Your choice.

Or if you are brave enough just propose some sexytime cause that's all anyone wants from a relationship anyway
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lol I could care less about sexytiem
I`ve never met anybody who I really get along with. everybody else would have more issues than this one.

Perhaps I could poke around and enquire on her opinion of me?
P.S hello 'the person' if you`re reading this and you can figure out who I am pls shoot me a PM
 
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