Got myself in a pickle

You sound like you have bent to her every will, which is a problem from the beginning of the relationship, that, and the fact that you are dating someone who would cheat.

You must tell her what you have said in the post, and then you must discuss with her how to take it further.
 
My ex was exactly the same except that shed phone me if I didnt reply to smses
I tried to dump her,I got a concussion instead. :erm:
Dump her.Preferably when you are in a nearby town/city
But you`re screwed about the work part
 
Hmmm . . . Clearly the op is a duplicate of some other poster. I don't think one should bother replying to such crap. Sometimes I wonder how many people in this forum use more then one account? Mods please delete this nonsens.
 
You're not in a pickle mate. Leave her be and don't give in to her. This kinda woman does not deserve a partner.
Control freak
Everything you do will be questioned
Nothing you do will be good and if you do good, it won't be good enough.
 
Seems like a bad case of karma; what goes around comes around - She was seeing another guy at work when we started but ditched him for me. Don't really know the details but assuming this other guy was cheated on she probably feels she is getting what is coming to her and trying very hard to avoid it. Problem with life is that often what you fear most ends up getting you in the end.

I think she should try get to terms with dumping the first dude for what ever reason. The problem lies there most probably. Once that is resolved things should get better. This however will take a lot of time/effort so should you not be willing to go the extra mile.. best to shove it.
 
Dude dude dude....usually the crazy chicks are the 1's that have that weird look that you can pick up a mile away. Post a pic of her so we can advise whether to keep dipping it in there or make a run for the hills.
 
NickLeStrange said:
People still need advise with this stuff? If it aint working, and you don't want to, or can't make it work, then ditch it. If she becomes a problem, speak to HR. Own up to your mistakes, etc etc. </lecture>
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Millions of years of evolution and we still need someone else to tell us the obvious
 
Read OP, see that he's only got one post and then /threadIgnore

One post wonders and their mutterings.

Why not just use your normal username and respond?
 
cornered said:
I started seeing a work college just over 2 yrs ago. She works in the same office as me. I know work relationships are a no-no, but it happened.

Now the problem is we became very close and very intimate. She was seeing another guy at work when we started but ditched him for me.
I became quite attached to her, but every time I spoke to another female work college or even replied to a work email, she'd have a hissy fit. She is VERY jealous. She won't let me even go to a braai with friends without turning it against me somehow saying I put her second blah blah blah - but when she does it it's fine.

She hides everything about herself - I know she speaks to other guys on her phone etc, but I don't make a scene about it. Now the other night I went out with mates against her will, then she literally blew a gasket blaming me for not loving her and putting others first. If I don't answer her calls immediately, she freaks out. If I reply to her texts even a few minutes late, she loses it.

I'm scared of actually pissing her off :wtf:

I have done everything for this girl. I have been there for her, bought and given her things but I get the feeling she is using me and trying to control her life.

I've tried to tell her this, but it ends up with me being the pr*ck, and her saying that's the way she is and she isn't gonna change for anyone.

What makes it worse is that we work together (BAD mistake!!)

Do I tell her to shove it?
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Tell her to shove it, But don't do it alone, get a friend to be your witness so that things don't turn against you in the future.
 
I'd get out. That chick obviously has issues and they won't magically disappear.
 
Why do so many people need to be convinced to tell someone to piss off? It's really not as tough as you make it out to be. I think most people over-estimate their worth to others...
 
First a train now an anthropomorphic college.

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Bill worked in a pickle factory. He had been employed there for a number of
years when he came home one day and confess to his wife that he had a terrible
compulsion. He had an urge to stick his penis into the pickle slicer. His
wife suggested that he should see a sex therapist to talk about it, but Bill
indicated that he`d be too embarrassed. He vowed to overcome the compulsion on
his own. One day a few weeks later, Bill came home absolutely ashen. His wife
could see at once that something was seriously wrong. "What`s wrong, Bill?"
she asked.
"Do you remember that I told you how I had this tremendous urge to put my
penis into the pickle slicer?"
"Oh, Bill, you didn`t."
"Yes, I did."
"My God, Bill, what happened?"
"I got fired."
"No, Bill. I mean, what happened with the pickle slicer?"
"Oh, she got fired too."
 
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