Guy Seeks honest relationship advice...

I think you should just be honest and tell her about the wife and two kids you already have. Maybe you did!
 
She'll be fine. You considered going but didn't. That is enough. She probably just feels powerless in the relationship after that and just needs lots of reassurance of how much you need her. Just give her a nice 'getting vulnerable vibe' and she'll be okay.
 
I don't quite get this....

You got a job offer in Oz and then you decided against it and now she's upset and doesn't trust the relationship?

Is she 13?

Any woman that stands in the way of your success is not worth it. If she truely cared about you she would feel dissapointed that you were moving to Oz but still support you in your decision to make your life a better one.
 
I don't quite get this....

You got a job offer in Oz and then you decided against it and now she's upset and doesn't trust the relationship?

Is she 13?

Any woman that stands in the way of your success is not worth it. If she truely cared about you she would feel dissapointed that you were moving to Oz but still support you in your decision to make your life a better one.

X2 very immature and selfish
 
She probably just feels powerless in the relationship

Whats new here! Before the problem she was still powerless, because that dude was tyrannical type. So thats not the real issue here.

Let me tell you what happened: She was fscking around behind his back and probably still is. So she had feeling of guilt and called the relationship off!
 
oh I thought this was some big deal. You don't have anything to prove. you haven't really done anything wrong.
 
oh I thought this was some big deal. You don't have anything to prove. you haven't really done anything wrong.

Exactly! If anything she should prove herself to you. Prove that she isn't going to act irrationally and throw her toys out the cot whenever a hard situation presents itself.
 
Oke so i read the whole thread.

So you are telling me you let an opportunity to go to Aus go for a girl and now you do not have the job or the girl??


You have been had…. She is just not that into you, if she was she would have asked if she could join you.
 
Bwhahahahahahahaha!!
She might be into men now:confused:

Sies Mila :mad:


Dude ... what Serqet said. If she gives a damn about you she would've motivated you. I'm not going to give you the "plenty fish" speech, because you're not interested in other fish now, are you?

Mila has a point with her cruel post though. Don't apologize for your actions. Wanting to improve your life is hardly something to be judged upon. If you apologize for that, she'll always treat you like she has your balls in her handbag...and use her now proven successful tactic against you whenever she wants something.

Don't be fooled, girls really CAN BE evil creatures.
 
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