To the questions why we braai at his house, the answer is simply that my wife has a very close group of friends and we mainly go to see them and on these occasions the braai is at his house unfortunately
Well, i had one ex who made it his duty to talk about his 2 recent exes to me. He never said anything positive about them, worse still he volunteered the information.
I never see the point of discussing my ex more bcoz i remember only the positives about my past lives. If i my boo ever asks about them then he knows the answer will be smart & random although it's not what he wanted to hear