How much work has gone into your relationships

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as long as it is not, well I hope it's not, full of dog... :erm:

Okay ... its friday night and the thread is turning to this.

Goodnight gents.

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Put lots of effort into my last relationship. Ended up marrying her. Funny thing is, I don't do much of that anymore, yet she still spoils me when I need spoiling.

In retrospect though. I would say that the effort should only come later. As lots of effort early either scares them off, or makes them take you for granted, or expect the same all the time.

I guess once you have roped her in, then its about moderation of your effort. Go big on a special occasion or two. But sometimes purposely go small on others. You need to keep her wanting more, while still feeling a little shy about expecting it.
 
You shouldn't have to put huge amounts of effort in the beginning ... it should flow in the beginning
 
Another Classic Reason why I signed up to this place :D :D
We kinda went to the same college together so I`d spend 6 hours a day 5 days a week just talking to her well Her talking and me listening :p
Things escalated pretty fast :erm:
Then she klapped my brains out.
I RAN
 
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A while back I got into pua and had routines to get women to fall for me. Worked pretty well. Now I've got a lot more confidence and I just don't care and I get women far easier!
 
Past relationship..Waaaay to much effort. In the beginning not much..she complained..then it was too much..Made me feel like I was always running a marathon and she took advantage of that.
Lesson learnt. Moderation is key.

Way to young to be as stressed as I was in that relationship..

//gets thread idea..creates new thread
 
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