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thisisnotanalias

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My girlfriend hates giving head. We've been together for over 2 years, and I can count the number of times I've been privileged to receive without taking off my socks. Even when she does eventually say yes, she rushes through it and makes it seem like a chore. Whatever I try to do to convince her falls on deaf ears. I do everything to make sure she enjoys herself, so I think it's unfair that she won't do the same for me.
Am I being unreasonable? How much does the usual guy get? Do all women hate it this much? (My previous girlfriends didn't seem to mind it, but those were all short relationships, so they may have been lying)
 
Dude, whilst u probably love it, she obviously doesnt enjoy doing it.
Whist you may see it as unfair, she just see's it as a sexual thing she doesnt want to do.

If a girl says you can do anal, does it mean she can then put a strap on and give you a go?

Speak to her about it, try find out whats bothering her....If she honestly doesnt want to, then kicking up a fuss about it isnt going to help. Decide how important it is to you, and either put up without it, or move on
 
thisisnotanalias said:
My girlfriend hates giving head. We've been together for over 2 years, and I can count the number of times I've been privileged to receive without taking off my socks. Even when she does eventually say yes, she rushes through it and makes it seem like a chore. Whatever I try to do to convince her falls on deaf ears. I do everything to make sure she enjoys herself, so I think it's unfair that she won't do the same for me.
Am I being unreasonable? How much does the usual guy get? Do all women hate it this much? (My previous girlfriends didn't seem to mind it, but those were all short relationships, so they may have been lying)
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Its kinda hit and miss. You get some that don't mind it, some that enjoy doing it, some that hate doing it, and some that won't do it at all. Try and find out why she doesn't like doing it. If its the taste, then a strong mint (XXX mint if you must :D) can help mask it. If she feels demeaned by doing it, then there is little you can do about it because no matter what you say (true or no), you will always be trying to convince her to give you head.
 
Stop munching her for a few weeks and then see the U turn, she will be begging you to let her do it. That is of course if you actually eat her and if you do not well you are screwed mate.
 
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killadoob said:
Stop munching her for a few weeks and then see the U turn, she will be begging you to let her do it. That is of course if you actually eat her and if you do not well you are screwed mate.
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hahaha Agreed!
 
LOL @ Thread.

I agree, you get people that love doing it, some that dont mind it, some that hate it. I dont mind giving it, but it is definately not my fav thing to do in bed. The reason for that is the old gag reflex is strong and very much present with me. And god help you if you push my head down on it....I will bite your balls if you do that.

I think the important thing is that a blowjob as a stand alone act is boring. It should really be the precurrsor to something more. If you want a blowjob quick and then directly after spilling the milk pull up your pants then I dont blame her. :-)
 
killadoob said:
Stop munching her for a few weeks and then see the U turn, she will be begging you to let her do it. That is of course if you actually eat her and if you do not well you are screwed mate.
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This. simple & effective.
 
LOL,

Is there anyone who does actually get it regularly? And by regularly, I mean more than 4 times a yer?

Maybe hypnosis will work =P
 
make sure your extra clean down there :)
mine doesnt mind giving head but she used to get upset when i held her head down and finished in her mouth but shes pretty much gotten used to it at this point, dont even have to hold her head down anymore.
 
Bighit said:
LOL,

Is there anyone who does actually get it regularly? And by regularly, I mean more than 4 times a yer?

Maybe hypnosis will work =P
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how about 3 times per week? :confused:

(I must however add, that i'm not married yet - so this might change)
 
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