Can anyone link that site where u can buy a good remote control for use with xbmc?
Barfish, best to use a Logitech Harmony - I got the 300i here: http://www.loot.co.za/product/logitech-harmony-300i-universal-remote/mbhb-1717-g280
Afraid you'll have to look around if you need the 600 or One.
You'll also need a receiver for an HP Microserver. Contact either http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/member.php/15662-mh348, or possibly the Hauppage receiver from takealot.com.
Please note, I make no guarantee about either of these setups. Worst comes to worst, you can manually programme the Harmony.