1) I don't think it is a racial motivate instance
2) I don't think what a big deal of this instance is.
first of all, make yourself colour blind before discuss of this issue.
it is because in SA, no matter what is the nature of an instance which will escalate to a racial issue. It is not health to the society and it is not rational thought.
a) the whole story is from Director Eunice Makgwane - if you are Makgwane, will you told the story on your side?
b) we assumed it is exactly of what happened as Makgwane' story, let we see what happened.
She said her neighbour's eldest son climbed over the wall and politely asked her to give the ball back, but she waved, indicating that she was on the phone. Makgwane said she was dealing with a municipal official over a power failure at her house.
i) question -> why she knew the boy understood what she was trying to say by "waved"?
She alleges that the younger son, a 16-year-old whom she described as "ill-mannered", became impatient.
ii) why the boy was becoming "ill-mannered"? What did she do to the boy?
"He climbed over the wall and said 'hey meid, gee vir my my bal' (hey, maid give me my ball) twice. I was so shocked and stunned that I did not know how to react. Here I was being belittled in my own home by a young boy. I stood against the garden wall and asked why he was being so disrespectful. He kicked my thumb away from the wall," said a tearful Makgwane.
iii) obviously, here is the problem started, but she never told us why the boy reacted like this, what she did?
Common sense -> you will not change your attitiude 180 degree if nothing happened to you. Right?
I don't want to go further, they just like two childs shouting to each other....
finally ............
"The father came with his two sons and opened my gate throwing the padlock roughly on to the ground. He came into my yard asking for the ball. I had taken the ball out of the pool and into the house. He grabbed me by my T-shirt and shook me, saying I was not the first 'k*****meid' he had ever dealt with. I was horrified," she said.
Makgwane reached into the boot of her car for her pepper spray to defend herself.
"I told him he had no manners and was trespassing and that I would use the pepper spray on him. They all went to their car and two of them came back with guns, cocked them and pointed them at me. He said that next time he would shoot me and called me a 'k****r' again.
I am 100% sure she did "something" to the father and son, she made them very angry, then the father had his gun and pointed to her. Sad ending!
Makgwane was wrong.
father was wrong.
son was wrong.
the story is very simple: a boy hit his ball to his neighbour house, but the neighbour did not give back his ball and did something to insult him, and he was angry and told his father. His father came back to want the ball back but his neighbour refused to give the ball back once again and insulted the father. The father was very angry and used his gun pointed to his neighbour. END OF STORY!
Is that a big deal? This type of stories happened around the world every day! Why it is a racial issue? If you put a "white lady" instead of the "black lady", it is the SAME! The only different will be some "racist" comments. ask yourself if you are angry, will you do something similar? (you are pig, dog, cat monkey....., white jerk, black jerk, yellow jerk etc........ fish, crab, jellyfish more seafood?

) Everyone is the same. yes, used gun may be over-reacting but you have to understand impulsive behaviours are unpredictable.
I also don't know what I am going to do ..............
