I need help

Robertvv said:
I myself don't like guy people, it is the way I was brought up. I still believe being gay is a sin and wrong in God's eyes. Now a family member of my family (female) decided she is gay. How must I accept it, understand it, etc. I believe that you cannot spank it out of them
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You and the family need to intervene and pray for her, thats the only option I see. Else the worst case scenario is that the family can disown her as being lesbian is not accepted in the Church.
 
Interesting debate. In which testament does it specify the being gay is wrong?
 
Robertvv said:
I myself don't like guy people, it is the way I was brought up. I still believe being gay is a sin and wrong in God's eyes. Now a family member of my family (female) decided she is gay. How must I accept it, understand it, etc. I believe that you cannot spank it out of them
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Shaun108 said:
You and the family need to intervene and pray for her, thats the only option I see. Else the worst case scenario is that the family can disown her as being lesbian is not accepted in the Church.
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FCLoretz said:
Interesting debate. In which testament does it specify the being gay is wrong?
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Leviticus, OT. If memory serves correct, Man/man, man/animal, woman/animal are all sins. I can't recall woman/woman.


Real talk, the Bible was **** material for me. Must be why I like stories.xnxx.
 
Shaun108 said:
You and the family need to intervene and pray for her, thats the only option I see. Else the worst case scenario is that the family can disown her as being lesbian is not accepted in the Church.
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Love thy family*

* Unless they're gay
 
Shaun108 said:
You and the family need to intervene and pray for her, thats the only option I see. Else the worst case scenario is that the family can disown her as being lesbian is not accepted in the Church.
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They may even have to burn her at the stake, only after the exorcism though.
 
Robertvv said:
I myself don't like guy people, it is the way I was brought up. I still believe being gay is a sin and wrong in God's eyes. Now a family member of my family (female) decided she is gay. How must I accept it, understand it, etc. I believe that you cannot spank it out of them
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Don't listen to all of the athiests here Robert, the best recourse is prayer and counselling. Make it known to the family and Church that she is going through a crisis and needs help.
 
Hello Robert

My mother is from a large, Irish-Catholic family and my father from a much smaller hardarsed Afrikaaner family. Growing up, my mother's side suffered through many trial and tribulations - hell, truth be told it would've been better to just endure The Troubles but so be it. That kind of family is defined by its numbers - there were millions of us. Still are. I have cousins all over the show. Three of them are gay. Older members of our family struggle to come to terms with the decisions these three have made. Why did they decide to be gay? Why are they the antichrist? Why can't they stop being gay and behave now? How can it be fun?

My cousins grew up around one another in Joburg. We lived elsewhere at the time so I do not have memories to draw upon for these formative years. One thing I can tell you though, my cousin with whom I am the closest has told me time and again that growing up, as kids, it was very evident that these three were different. No amount of nurturing or parenting or alternative life events would have changed anything. From birth, they were gay. Some suffered through shunning, drugs, degaying Christian therapy and other nonsense while their own families would rather hate them than accept the reality: this is what was born.

Don't make that same mistake: it is a quality much like hair colour, not a choice one makes one day when the opposite sex gets too much. Be the same person you always have been. No need to dish out blessings and no need to condemn either. You wouldn't go around congratulating straight members on their heterosexuality nor would you bash them for it - the same applies to this member.
 
Shaun108 said:
Don't listen to all of the athiests here Robert, the best recourse is prayer and counselling. Make it known to the family and Church that she is going through a crisis and needs help.
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Yup. Pray for your own enlightenment.
If God hates something he created then he's a bit of a 530d....
 
The Old testament was written in the old believes. Now any person/animal will always remain wrong.

However the New testament was written with the fact that Jesus came down as saviour to all. Their is no mention of don't be gay in the new testament if I recall correct.

Your believes has been forced upon you by 100's of years of the NG kerk. Get over it and accept her for who she is.

It might be a fase she is going through it may very well be her true self coming out.

Deal with it.
 
Shaun108 said:
Don't listen to all of the athiests here Robert, the best recourse is prayer and counselling. Make it known to the family and Church that she is going through a crisis and needs help.
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I've known a number of gay people whose families pulled that brilliant trick on them.

You want to **** a person up for life? Do that.

Cretin.
 
New testament says love your neighbour like you love yourself. Very much an endorsement of same sex pleasuring there...
 
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