TofuMofu
Honorary Master
it's one thing to approach a woman, it's another to see every woman as a potential mate. for example, it's easier to advertise what you want online if someone is looking for the same thing. in every day life i treat people casually and equally, and i have limited time and shared areas with certain people, while i'm constantly missing people by minutes and hours, or in different rooms and different streets.
when looking for a job, do you go "out there" and wander around looking for employment, or do you turn to media to find the job best suited for you?
online dating can have its pitfalls, it's not where weirdos hang out, it's where majority of the web culture hangs out, which just HAPPENS to be weirdosbut then again it's all in what you're trying to achieve, are you messaging hundreds of women or merely advertising yourself on another platform?
You get weirdos hanging out at the pub as well
Besides, if you're looking for someone at a pub, you're looking for the wrong person already
Online dating has made life so much easier, convenient and safer. So why not?