Is it cheating/infidelity?

[RonSwanson]

If you and your partner is separated and the divorce papers filed pending finalization, can it still be considered as cheating / infidelity if you meet someone after the papers were signed and all that is still waiting is the courts finalisation of the divorce?

If you have to ask, then it is.

In any event, divorce itself is infidelity to your marriage vows.

 

[Zyk1]

Not cheating at all.

 

[TofuMofu]

what will God think

ERROR 404: God not found.

 

[Crowley]

what will God think

That the possible current is hotter than the ex.

Go for it!

 

[schuits]

Why would you think it was?
There's more to this story.
Has she found out and now she's using the guilt card? Maybe she's trying to leverage more out of the divorce by making you feel guilty?
Spill....

 

[IamNoone]

what will God think

I do believe that He wants us to be happy... And I do see me giving other women hap-penis is important.

 

[IamNoone]

Why would you think it was?
There's more to this story.
Has she found out and now she's using the guilt card? Maybe she's trying to leverage more out of the divorce by making you feel guilty?
Spill....

I am trying to avoid stories, which will probably anyway be told as her mother has planted many seeds of untruths already just after we were married.

 

[hellfire]

I am trying to avoid stories, which will probably anyway be told as her mother has planted many seeds of untruths already just after we were married.

But we want stories.

 

[syntax]

I am trying to avoid stories, which will probably anyway be told as her mother has planted many seeds of untruths already just after we were married.

Are there kids involved? If not, then who cares about stories

 

[Scary_Turtle]

The day you say its over its not cheating. After 9 years of being faithful it took me about 2 weeks to move on.

Remember everyone is going to assume that everything that went wrong is the guys fault ..... f%$@ them all its your life you are allowed to be happy, in a few months when you are happy and awesome again all this wont matter anymore.

 

[Jings]

Tell her it's not cheating. Life is short and you wanted to move on quickly and efficiently, unlike the divorce.

 

[HelterSkelter]

The time between papers filed and finalisation is the backdoor stage with your new girlfriend.

 

[The_ONE]

Nope - happy humping

 

[gregmcc]

Hell no its not cheating.

 

[IamNoone]

The day you say its over its not cheating. After 9 years of being faithful it took me about 2 weeks to move on.

Remember everyone is going to assume that everything that went wrong is the guys fault ..... f%$@ them all its your life you are allowed to be happy, in a few months when you are happy and awesome again all this wont matter anymore.

Thanks.

Things went south long ago. It was just a case of wishful thinking that it can be fixed. I was ready to move on when she came to me Sunday a week ago and said she wants a divorce. Tbh, I can't remember being this happy in the last 8 years...

 

[IamNoone]

Then this comes to mind:

 

[schuits]

 

[GlassMirror]

Why would you think it was?
There's more to this story.
Has she found out and now she's using the guilt card? Maybe she's trying to leverage more out of the divorce by making you feel guilty?
Spill....

Usually when she finds out the guy has moved on, she tries everything to guilt trip him and to make him feel like he did everything wrong in the relationship. Also she's also moved on but doesn't want you to move on. It's just how they are

 

[I.am.Sam]

post pics so we can judge

 

[spiff]

have a listen to this ted talk