Is it wrong? (Ladies opinions)

[I.am.Sam]

it may be something that would hold her back a bit, but if she likes you it won't be a big thing. if i were in that situation, i think i would find it very naughty, but sexy

We have a winner Prophet...a woman who thinks naughty thoughts on the internet

 

[The_Ogre]

Well she should be careful with posting from the kitchen

 

[Nerfherder]

Nothing wrong with it... the only issue is that if it doesn't work out there may be some awkwardness.

I know its different but I dated and ended up marrying my sisters (good)friend. At first she was cool about it but then my sister got all weird and there were huge fights... we had so sort it out because its not cool to have an ex friend as your SIL.

It will be extra complicated because you will have essentially 4 people in your relationship, I rate you guys ask what your brother and SIL what they think... because honestly its not going to be worth it if they are going to hate it. Long term its just not worth the energy.

I rate you try it out for a bit and just agree that you will end it if its going to affect the family.

 

[StonerStuart]

Ok from what I can gather most people thing it is ok for a short term 'fling' anything longer will gain attention and stand the chance of becoming an awkward situation.

I have no intention of marrying the girl nor would I like to start a long term relationship with her. Id just like to know that if I did go down this road again and the family found out it would not be a WTF situation.

 

[akescpt]

plant your flag and claim that land if it available and your not cousins or something...

 

[GreyBush]

If it doesn't work out then xmas might be a little awkward from now on.

 

[bwana]

Ok from what I can gather most people thing it is ok for a short term 'fling' anything longer will gain attention and stand the chance of becoming an awkward situation.

I have no intention of marrying the girl nor would I like to start a long term relationship with her. Id just like to know that if I did go down this road again and the family found out it would not be a WTF situation.

Again? So you've done this before?

 

[StonerStuart]

Again? So you've done this before?

And that is why you are a moderator...

Yes I have been there and done that but I want to go down that road again!
It was great. It was thrilling, exciting, devious!

I started this thread to find out what people thought about it, well women... I found out that there are only a few women on the internet.

It enforces my phobias of online dating.

 

[MR V]

geez ... I read my 'my brothers wife' and was wondering why most of you said it was ok!

Had to go back and reread

Even me the 1st time

 

[Nick333]

And that is why you are a moderator...

Yes I have been there and done that but I want to go down that road again!
It was great. It was thrilling, exciting, devious!

I started this thread to find out what people thought about it, well women... I found out that there are only a few women on the internet.

It enforces my phobias of online dating.

Most of the ladies of the internet are on facebook and twitter. Anyway, the few that are here are probably wondering why they in particular should have weightier opinions on romancing your brothers sister-in-law.

My, male, opinion is that there's nothing explicitly wrong with it.

 

[StonerStuart]

Most of the ladies of the internet are on facebook and twitter. Anyway, the few that are here are probably wondering why they in particular should have weightier opinions on romancing your brothers sister-in-law.

My, male, opinion is that there's nothing explicitly wrong with it.

Yes your male opinion is the same as mine, but our male opinions are different to those of a women.
So since Id like to see the side of a women I asked for womens opinions.

 

[Safferbeauty]

I really don't see a prob at all. If you were blood related, maybe but you not so what you waiting for and yes I am a lady lol

 

[Nick333]

Yes your male opinion is the same as mine, but our male opinions are different to those of a women.
So since Id like to see the side of a women I asked for womens opinions.

I'm just saying that I don't see how ones gender would affect ones opinion on the subject.

 

[StonerStuart]

I'm just saying that I don't see how ones gender would affect ones opinion on the subject.

Gender always gives differing views on issues. Well ok not always but most of the time a women will see a problem when all that a man sees is a fun time.

 

[Roxi_B4b3]

Gender always gives differing views on issues. Well ok not always but most of the time a women will see a problem when all that a man sees is a fun time.

agreed! its a known fact that women think differently compared to men. there is no denying it

 

[R13...]

Im starting to believe that there really are no girls on the internet!

Such questions are best asked on facebook. You'd have had an army of females offering shallow what-you-want-hear-advice.

 

[StonerStuart]

Such questions are best asked on facebook. You'd have had an army of females offering shallow what-you-want-hear-advice.

But my pictures next to my name there!
Haha not so anonymous like this place!

 

[cjimme]

Are you sure she isn't trying to tell you that she isn't really into you?

Sometimes women do that - bring up other potential problems because they don't have the balls to tell you the truth.

 

[StonerStuart]

Are you sure she isn't trying to tell you that she isn't really into you?

Sometimes women do that - bring up other potential problems because they don't have the balls to tell you the truth.

I actually do think thats it!

 

[milomak]

so what happened the first time this happened? does you sister-in-law have more than one sister? or was it through a different sibling last time? how many brothers and sisters do you have?