Is this tolerable ?

Bondizzo

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Hi, guys I currently live at my dads place though the rest of the family stays in jhb as we have another home there. My dad will normally come to zambia to do business , but I'm not sure if its mainly for pleasure, as he keeps bringing call girls home as of late, like 6 in the past 2 weeks, yes he's married. Mornings are quite funny if I'm still at home as he comes up with funny excuses/instructions for me to go somewhere so he can provide a smooth exit.

I stay in the cottage, he thinks I don't see this. Is there anything I should do or let the man live ?
 

DrewChan

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I say, talk to him about it - especially if he's married - just my opinion
 

STS

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Talk to him about it, tell him what he gets up to is his business
 

SirFooK'nG

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If it were my dad, I would give him an ear full! Unacceptable.
 

ShaunSA

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6 girls in 2 weeks... you should be asking him for his secrets!
 

Glingfram

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My grandparents went through a very ugly divorce a couple years ago and the whole family got involved. Eventually the family was divided into two camps. I learned that it is best to stay out of people's marriages, even if they are family. That's a very personal thing the couple needs to sort out.

If it bothers you personally, raise it on your own behalf, not from your mom's perspective.
 

azbob

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Maybe that's how he met your mother :p

What if she knows about this and is cool with it?
 

Ms_S

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Just let him know that you aware of what's going on, let him take the next step after that.
 
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