I've decided to break-up with her...

SlyFly said:
I think everyone in this post should read through it again...
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You should read his post again, he has already made up his mind. We are just backing him.

Thabang01 said:
Hi people
So i was involved with this beautiful chic for just over 2 months now and i've decided to call it quits even though i still love her.Reason 1:She told me that she met her ex the other day,they spoke and she still feels something for him and apperently this guy was her dream man,which got my heart sore quite a bit(feeling insecure),(2) she likes finer things in life,like flashy cars, upmarket townhouse and i'm just an average guy who cannot even afford a bachelor flat, let alone a car, so you can imagine the pressure i was under, I think i'm better off without her...what do you all think?
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SlyFly said:
Seriously wtf are we to judge someone we have never even met before? Saying she is good in bed, so she must sleep around a lot? OMG People seriously.

Seriously guys, you need to think about what your saying... This chick sounds like the worse person on earth, the way you're going on, but yet he thought this was the love of his life? How bad can she be...
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When I ask the myBB people a question or advice, I expect them to "judge" me (if you want to put it that way) or tell me what they think, ofcourse they don't know the whole story. All I have to do is to take what they have said or told me or adviced me to do and take only the information that I think will help me. Thabang is not a child, we told him what we thought is right and all he has ot do is to decide what he will do with the info.
 
Dolby said:
I don't have time to read this whole thread - but here's my 2c ...

I read on the 1st page she's good in bed. The reason is because she's probably had quite a bit of practise - probably recently with the ex mentioned.

Liker the finer things in life, eh? She's materialistc - that's it.

As for you having the satisfaction od dumping her first? She's already got the replacement. She probably wants you to dump (leave her) alone anyway.

What's going to happen is that you're going to break up with her and feel heartbroken for days - and within a few hours she'd have forgotten about you and she'll be having drinks at her ex.
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Wow. Are you gay? With that much loathing towards women you must be..... If you're straight, how can you love a woman if they are all slutty, money digging, heartless vamps with nothing else in mind than to fsck over every guy that comes their way?

Just my 2c ;)

*stirs the pot*
 
Nah ... I'm not gay. And not all women have the bad traits mentioned ... probably about 90 percent. However, that 10 percent makes is worth.

Also judging by the OP comments, his ex/gf falls within the 90 percent ...
 
There are a zillion women around, don't get your heart broken by one, just move on.
 
Hey Sly - seems you are taking your break up with Thabang quite hard. Start a new thread if you need to talk about it...:p

:D
 
Was away for the weekend so the thread seems to be done...

All Im trying to say is maybe we should sometimes get of our highhorses... Seriously some of the things people are saying is just really unfair? Making if this chick is the worse person on the planet, when we all know that that award goes to Oprah :P For giving women a platform to diss men from...
 
Thabang01 said:
precisly...i actually thought she was the love of my life.
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was it true love or were you just i IN LOVE with this girl ??

i dated a girl for 4 and a half years and i also thought that we were going to get married and all that jazz, i mean, 4 years is a long time...we knew everything about each other and was so comfortable in each others pressence...she made me happy in every way...the only reason we broke up was because of distance...last night i found out se was with another guy, not dating, but you get the picture...this really made me quite sick although we broke up 5 months ago...we were still contacting each other every day or at least every 2nd day and the vibe felt like it was still going strong, i was even considdering to give it another chance, but then the bombshell....i mean, when you were the first and only guy she was intamite with and then hearing all of the sudden that....well....yeah , she was with another man so....it really broke my heart to be honest....:(

it was my first real relationship and to be honest, i dont really know how to deal with this situation...
 
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