Loser BF types

adamr

adamr

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Why would a girl choose a loser type as the BF, he is quiet, he has money issues, not the brightest around, not good looking either, he is fat ... over someone stable and just all round 1000x better than this person ...

why!!!???? ... :confused:

ladies you can answer this one ...
 
yah i know, i keep on asking the same question, my sister had 3 of them, all total losers buut luckily the one went to an institution for drugs and alc, the otherone just f.,.. off and the otherone should not come near our house :)
 
its probably because they are "cool" all smoking, drinking a lot, doing some drugs, so its all cool and some people want to hang out with "cool" people... weird..
 
blunomore said:
Perhaps he has a heart.
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hey you know what ... as angry as i am ... he does ... :( ... you right ...

EDIT: actually not, the dude stalks her, she told me and now she is back with him ... he threatened to kill himself when she left him, her mum was quite ill and he was not concerned, he just wanted to go out with her .. lol!!!!
 
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I see pretty girls going out with siff fat people all the time, or crappy jocks.
 
wait, yes he does like her like crazy, but i mean stuff like her health and well being **** the guy did not even bother. i did and once she got funny with me and i let her know. being stupid does not mean not remembering to worry about someone you care for's health and well being ..

(this is an ex of hers thats she is now back with) ...


dont want to make this thread about me, but rather understand what woman see in men ... why do females do what they do when it comes to men ...
 
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The way I see it is she wants attention, and he seems to be giving it to her in droves. Once she's had enough she'll ditch him again, lol then he can threaten suicide for a 2nd time.

You being the unfazed, cool dude who knows what he wants, and will not have his life dictated to him by a woman's needs, will suddenly start looking more attractive to her ;)
 
adamr said:
Why would a girl choose a loser type as the BF, he is quiet, he has money issues, not the brightest around, not good looking either, he is fat ... over someone stable and just all round 1000x better than this person ...

why!!!???? ... :confused:

ladies you can answer this one ...
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Maybe he has a better personality! Money is'nt everything.......
 
adamr.. you drive an m3... that should pull chicks in itself :P

but ya its true, i go to clubs and you'll have these hot hot gals, with ugly fat bald guys, who don't want to dance with them, just want to sit and drink, and look all emo. Then want to f%ck you up cause you looked at her... i don't understand why they go for these guys when they can have a hot, fun loving guy, but oh well.
 
Smooth Criminal said:
The way I see it is she wants attention, and he seems to be giving it to her in droves. Once she's had enough she'll ditch him again, lol then he can threaten suicide for a 2nd time.

You being the unfazed, cool dude who knows what he wants, and will not have his life dictated to him by a woman's needs, will suddenly start looking more attractive to her ;)
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I think that's spot on. She has broken up with him like 34 times! Maybe she likes the fact that she can control him???? with me I am my own person ...
 
adamr said:
hey you know what ... as angry as i am ... he does ... :( ... you right ...

EDIT: actually not, the dude stalks her, she told me and now she is back with him ... he threatened to kill himself when she left him, her mum was quite ill and he was not concerned, he just wanted to go out with her .. lol!!!!
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Abusive relationship. Been there done that. She feels like she got nowhere to go where will she stay who will help her move. They usually alienate most of the people in her live and she is ashamed to be week and a disappointment. She doesn’t need a boyfriend now she needs someone to tell her : that’s enough your moving/ leaving him. And then babysit her for a few weeks to make sure he doesn’t get to her.
Yes and everybody thinks he is such a lovely boy but he is a pig when nobody is around.
Just my opinion. I think more people get abused than we think. And that sounds like me a year and a half ago. Always going back.
You should try and find out from her girl friends if someone suspect something.
And then again maybe she likes the abandoned sick puppy type.:D
 
I had this GF couple of years ago, I saw her earlier this year with this retard of a guy. I was totally shocked coz its not the type of guy she would go for.
So I asked, whats up with the "homo hobo?"

She liked the fact that he was "real" and had "problems" and "loved" her and needed her and warrra warra wah!! Made sense in a way, anyway we all had supper together he's a pretty cool guy although I see he shows signs of Napolean syndrome, and really has self esteem issues....


Oh well.
 
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