Men, Always Guilty?

[Deenem]

Her behavior sounds like something that fits into a group of behaviors called Personality Disorders. If it's affecting your life and your relationship then I'd suggest doing some reading up on this and if it's sounds like a Personality Disorder then consider therapy.

Here are some links:
http://psychcentral.com/disorders/sx7.htm (Antisocial Personality Disorder)
http://psychcentral.com/disorders/sx10.htm (Borderline Personality Disorder)
http://psychcentral.com/disorders/sx17.htm (Histrionic Personality Disorder)

Borderline Personality Disorder is the most common of these, it has it's own website. www.bpdcentral.com, with Forums to post questions on.

In the mean time, the best thing you can do is just to speak to her. She's not pissed off about what you posted on Facebook, she's pissed off about something else. Try listening to her and she will open up to her.

There's a simple technique you can use called Reflection, basically just sit down and start a conversation with her then whatever she says, just repeat it. (Not word-for-word else she will get even more pissed off with you ;-) Keep on repeating (reflecting like a mirror) whatever she says and make an effort not inject your feelings or opinion into the conversation, the point is to make the conversation about her (x2) and not about you.

Try it and see how it goes.

 

[Maelly]

Gunther, this relationship sounds more like that of CheesB's. The only diff is that CheesB's girl is cheating on him.

 

[risingtide]

A woman's faults are many, men have only two,
everything they say and everything they do.

 

[4cer]

Today on bold and the beautiful ....

no but seriously how old is she cause i had a few 16 year old Gf's that behaved like this ?

but i agree it is a game, and you have to win.. unless you wanna become her b*tch...

 

[Alan]

Call Town Hill ....... she sounds loony (not to be horrible or anything )

 

[killadoob]

as a joke go up to her and she

BABY DO YOU WANNA FU%^

if she freaks out its time to find someone who will go ok, rip off their clothing and fu%^ the shyte outta you

now thats a keeper

 

[Kim_Webchick]

Face it your fault, just say sorry and all will be better

 

[medicnick83]

Face it your fault, just say sorry and all will be better

Typical chick mentality.

Dude, if you beleive you right, fight for it.
If you let her get her way now, it never going to stop.
When you 'think' you might be wrong, let her win... but stand up for yourself.

 

[Highflyer_GP]

She does horribly.. But according to her it's okay because she does it in front of her family and they know her.

Tell her you're going to put the word into action and do another chic, and it's okay because the other chic knows you.

 

[hierts]

oh man get out soon! I know a guy that ended up spending all his free time at teazers because his chick is exactly the same

Seriously now, get out please.. women like that ruin perfectly sane men!

 

[Pitbull]

I'm always wrong.

They last exercise set me back R 10k
Just accept that you as the man is always wrong and you both will be very happy ever after

 

[Jadoin]

woman always get upset over trival things, we all do, and we all get over it eventually, just kind of need to make it known to the male species that we peeved at it haha. This too shall pass....