My current mess :(

Good Morning all

Thanks again to everyone for the messages of support really made me feel better yesterday, still feeling quite schit about this whole situation but a lot better than yesterday.

To answer the question previously asked she does not want an abortion, she also told me that she is already starting to get a belly which is def a sign that she is more than 3 weeks so things are looking up but I know I am not out of the woods yet, when she does go to the doc on Monday it will be a better indication of how far along she is. She also went to the guy yesterday who she thinks is the father and told him it is his baby.

Thing is, I highly doubt that she even mentioned me or this ex-friend of mine could be the father, I reckon she just told him that she is 100% sure it is his. Poor guy imagine finding out down the line it is not his. Worst still that they did only have a one-night stand kinda deal and as far as he knows he is tied to her for life.
 
Anon123 said:
This woman screwed 2 guys and still she wanted to get back together

I don't think I will ever trust another woman again in my life, feel so freaken betrayed and the worst is I was willing to give the long distance thing a chance.

I really hope that this child is not mine and I hope the Gods are smiling on me, cause this b1tch does not deserve me.
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Sorry to hear sir.

I know it is hard to hear but just like all guys are not the same, all women are not the same, so do not judge to harshly.

I hope the kid is not yours (Why the hell were you doing the deed without protection????) so that you can kick this woman in the panty and move on with your life.
 
Just to point out, the HIV test may give a false negative early on (it's called the window period, or something like that). So I believe to be accurate you need to test about a month after the potential exposure, depending on the test type.
 
Devill said:
Why the hell were you doing the deed without protection????
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When you love them so much you do not think they could be lying about being on the pill or injection. That was my mistake and I won't do it again. I bought shares in Durex after that.
 
Some times I'm grateful that I only slept with one women and that was after marriage (same for her). Life is so much simpler.
 
Cius said:
Some times I'm grateful that I only slept with one women and that was after marriage (same for her). Life is so much simpler.
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If you haven't had to walk into a pharmacy and deal with the awkward silence after you ask for Crabs Cream, you haven't lived... :p
 
I, on the other hand, am lucky for the opposite reasons. While on varsity (I used to stay in a student village) almost every person I banged I didn't use a condom with. Granted, all of them I was in some sort of relationship with so I took their word that they're using protection.

Looking back, I realise how I lived on the edge.
 
YingYang said:
I, on the other hand, am lucky for the opposite reasons. While on varsity (I used to stay in a student village) almost every person I banged I didn't use a condom with. Granted, all of them I was in some sort of relationship with so I took their word that they're using protection.

Looking back, I realise how I lived on the edge.
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Free for all unprotected sex?
You stupid mullets!!!
Years ago - I had a scary few weeks after a condom broke on a one-night stand. Still have a mental image that there is a knock on my door and a 14 year old asks me if I'm his dad.:wtf:

My wife has a video at home that was produced by the Kenian Dept of Health. She used to do AIDs counceling for LifeLine.
The've had such a problem with STI's that they have resorted to showing the worst case as a shock tactic.
That's some nasty *****. Heck. There are way worse things than pregnancy or even HIV out there. :sick:

As for the 'girlfriend'. Chalk it up as a life lesson and hold thumbs it is not yours. By the sound of things - its very likely its not yours.
Sorry man - I call it as I see it.
 
killerbyte said:
When you love them so much you do not think they could be lying about being on the pill or injection. That was my mistake and I won't do it again. I bought shares in Durex after that.
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May that be the last time you use that silly excuse again.

Loving them has nothing to do with being too horny to stop the party till you are wrapped up and good to go.
 
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