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Anon123

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First off I have no idea why I am sharing this with anyone, but what the hell.

So about 4 months ago why GF decided that she wanted to move to CT as she wants to study next year, fine we kind of part ways, still chat every second day or so.

Fast forward to roughly three weeks ago, she decides she wants to come for a visit, so we spend a week together and have some fun and she wants to get back together and says we can make it work, long distance.

Fast forward to today, calls me up says she is pregnant but does not think it is mine :wtf: as she claims she was starting to feel nauseous while she was here already and admits to sleeping with someone a couple weeks before she came to visit me.

Also the clinic she went to today worked it out and that she is more than 3 wks pregnant as she has missed her period for quite some time.

Obviously I will only be satisfied that it is not mine once the blood tests are done on Monday.

But wait there is more, she also admitted to sleeping with one of my long-time friends while she was here in my house while I was at work.

This woman screwed 2 guys and still she wanted to get back together

I don't think I will ever trust another woman again in my life, feel so freaken betrayed and the worst is I was willing to give the long distance thing a chance.

I really hope that this child is not mine and I hope the Gods are smiling on me, cause this b1tch does not deserve me.
 
Obviously I will only be satisfied that it is not mine once the blood tests are done on Monday.
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This might be difficult. Wait until the child is born.
 
Yep, it's hard buddy, but you'll come out stronger for it and have better stories
 
unprotected with 3 different guys. what was she expecting?
 
Anon123 said:
First off I have no idea why I am sharing this with anyone, but what the hell.

So about 4 months ago why GF decided that she wanted to move to CT as she wants to study next year, fine we kind of part ways, still chat every second day or so.

Fast forward to roughly three weeks ago, she decides she wants to come for a visit, so we spend a week together and have some fun and she wants to get back together and says we can make it work, long distance.

Fast forward to today, calls me up says she is pregnant but does not think it is mine :wtf: as she claims she was starting to feel nauseous while she was here already and admits to sleeping with someone a couple weeks before she came to visit me.

Also the clinic she went to today worked it out and that she is more than 3 wks pregnant as she has missed her period for quite some time.

Obviously I will only be satisfied that it is not mine once the blood tests are done on Monday.

But wait there is more, she also admitted to sleeping with one of my long-time friends while she was here in my house while I was at work.

This woman screwed 2 guys and still she wanted to get back together

I don't think I will ever trust another woman again in my life, feel so freaken betrayed and the worst is I was willing to give the long distance thing a chance.

I really hope that this child is not mine and I hope the Gods are smiling on me, cause this b1tch does not deserve me.
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What kind of a whore were you dating? Also, get rid of that 'friend' man, ****.
 
Yeah... get rid of the friend, and ASAP.... if he is prepared to mess you around like that, there is no telling how he will stab you in the back.
 
Sorry dude, that is a sticky situation.I hope you gave her a verbal scolding of note, reiterated that you want nothing to do with her(pending perternity tests) and go do a running flying kick slap on your 'mate'.
This baby is prob not yours (you didnt mention protection so cant say for certain), based soly on the time frame of 4 months away from you.

Sorry dude
 
The first time we slept together when she came to visit was roughly 2.5-3 wks ago, she is already getting serious morning sickness and has been for the last 2 weeks surely if it was me or my bastard ex-friend surely it would take a little longer for symptoms to develop? the clinic reckons she is 8 wks already by calculating when she had her last period so I am optimistic but scared ****less!
 
This is kark news just before Christmas. Man I hope it doesn't get you down too much. And I hope for your sake the child is not yours. Good luck and chin up dude. And like Randhir said - get rid of the so-called friend
 
Anon123 said:
The first time we slept together when she came to visit was roughly 2.5-3 wks ago, she is already getting serious morning sickness and has been for the last 2 weeks surely if it was me or my bastard ex-friend surely it would take a little longer for symptoms to develop? the clinic reckons she is 8 wks already by calculating when she had her last period so I am optimistic but scared ****less!
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What did you expect to happen by having unprotected sex? :confused:
 
KoosJr said:
This might be difficult. Wait until the child is born.
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Think he means the blood tests will pinpoint conception, which he can then use as a gauge.

OP: sorry about this. You're sharing it with us because you need to vent your disappointment, anger and heartbreak. Chin up buddy - hopefully things will work out for you but you must accept that part of this solution is gonna be the distance you maintain between yourself and the chick.

Good luck going forward and start making plans to get on with your life: it sounds very much like the pregnancy is not your doing. That said, entertain the possibility that she is lying about any variety of things including possible pregnancy, other guys, etc.

To study? Good luck mommy...
 
Anon123 said:
The first time we slept together when she came to visit was roughly 2.5-3 wks ago, she is already getting serious morning sickness and has been for the last 2 weeks surely if it was me or my bastard ex-friend surely it would take a little longer for symptoms to develop? the clinic reckons she is 8 wks already by calculating when she had her last period so I am optimistic but scared ****less!
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SO you'll never used protection then and she is not on a pill/injection?
 
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